I grew up in Alabama, and most of my family still lives in the South. Moving up North has been a big shift—there are definitely some major cultural differences.

Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how my upbringing shaped me and how I see things differently now. It took me 37 years, but I find myself curious about things I never questioned before. For example, I recently tried to have a conversation with my brothers about bromances, and they were quick to dismiss it, saying it’s just a way for men to explore their “gay side.”

How do you guys handle the differences between how you were raised and who you are today? Do you ever find yourself in conflict with old beliefs or traditions? Would love to hear your thoughts.