Hi! Long post. TLDR summary at the end.

It’s happened to all us all before, and I’ve definitely been a victim of it several times. This time though…it hurts.

Met a bro, so incredibly chill; in the healthcare field like I am, extremely similar interests, masculine like I am, into the SFW/NSFW balance, but does not intend to make every convo NSFW oriented - he was/is just perfect. Average hairy body like me, which we were both fascinated to see that we were built so similarly with him being white, and I being middle eastern. It’s been a busy week for us both, but we’ve never talked as little as we have been recently.

Everyday, I’d wake up with a chat or 🫰 from him, and him from me - we always had that back and forth type of bond. That doesn’t happen with us anymore. I’ve made repeated attempts to chat or 🫰 with him first, and he has given me minimal communication back. When we talked a considerable amount, we’ve even talked about the possibility of meeting up since I’m moving to his state sometime this summer (we both live in the US), and he was all for it.

Where I think I went wrong, and I truly don’t think this caused it, but I have expressed to him on two separate occasions that the connection we have with each other was truly a first for me and that I’m very glad we met, and most recently in what may seem like a desperate attempt to not make him leave me, I told him I was afraid I was losing him and that he may have found another bro. His 🫰 score keeps going up, which also happened with us while we were talking (I’m not innocent, I have been talking with others as well but it never came in the way of us), but I don’t know if he thinks I’m being too forward or whatever the case. He basically responded by saying he’s just had a busy week, but he had been talking to other people, so I don’t know if that’s the truth.

I’m just confused, and sad. I’ve been ghosted several times - it never felt personal or brought me down in any way, but this is different. I feel like I’m slowly losing and being ghosted by the one person I had a true connection with. I’ve been using this account (different from the one I met him on) to advertise for another bro recently because of this, and I don’t know how to or even if I should express what I’m feeling to him. Curious to see if anyone’s been in similar situations and how they handle it.

Please don’t judge this post at face value. If you have any questions, please don’t assume you know the answer and ask. I’m open to questions and advice of course - I hope this post can serve as positive discourse.

TLDR: Met a bro with similar interests, great connection, talking for weeks and he’s slowly been intermittently unresponsive. Brought it up in a light hearted manner, and he claims he’s just been busy but his 🫰 score keeps climbing. Afraid this is the beginning of me being ghosted. Advice or questions are welcome!