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Utter self-absorption of people these days
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Iā€™m sat in my house, working, and am suddenly aware that I can hear a conversation. Not every word, but I can hear a conversation going on, like a boomy amplified noise. I go outside, and quite a way away from my house is a bloke sat in his car having a conversation on the speakers in his car, so loud you can hear it all down the street. I look at him, and he doesnā€™t do or say anything, so I fairly gently tell him that I can hear his conversation inside my house which is a fair way away. He looks at me as if Iā€™ve shat on his head, and carries on. So, and Iā€™m not proud of this, but it worked, I bellow ā€œturn it downā€ and it has now gone down. Is this normal? Am I a dinosaur? Do we conduct conversations at concert level volume now in our parked cars? What gets me isnā€™t the noise, tbh if heā€™d said ā€œsorry mate didnā€™t realise it was so loudā€ I wouldnā€™t have cared, but it was just the sheer shock at how put out he was that I dared to point out just how loud his conversation was. These type of interactions seem so much more common these days.. am I a grumpy old bastard or are people just mind-blowingly self-absorbed? I should add that he was/is waiting for school to finish and is picking up a child, this seems to lower peopleā€™s IQs in the same way as supermarket car parks do.. a thesis should surely be done on this.

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I wonder if during covid and lock downs people just got used to not needing to be considerate of other people because they spent so much time at home

It's a combination of everything.

But it all boils down to that people went full YOLO. They just don't care, for numerous reasons.

Some got really spooked by the pandemic and their own mortality, others got really spooked by people telling them what to do, probably for the first time in their lives.

People just stopped caring about anyone but their own feelings.

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