We will look like partners to everyone else. You, my loving and nerdy boyfriend or girlfriend, will seem very normal to our families and most of our friends. Only a select few will know that I own you completely, you serve me in all ways, and you encourage me to fuck other people for my pleasure. I would describe my domination style as royalty-like; I will not micromanage you, instead giving you broad tasks and standards, and you will check in when they are complete or you run into any issues. My play interests as a Domme include body & pussy worship, group play, “forced” bi, appearance control, orgasm control & denial, structure & rules, and light pain play including genital pain. While I’m not interested in play where femininity is shameful or embarrassing, I would love to dress you in sexy and feminine clothing if you so desire.

I am a switch, and often play with Dominant men. You must be comfortable with this, ideally encouraging it.

Regarding how I look, I'm short and white, with shoulder length dark hair that I'm growing out. Very much pear shaped with thick thighs, wide hips, and a big butt. I also have a big clit and a pussy that gets very wet. Currently I dress pretty androgynously day-to-day, but I’m working on developing a more feminine aesthetic. Body pictures can be found in my post history and face pictures available upon request. Please read my post history for more information about my general sexuality and experiences.

As for non-sexual interests, I love dogs, Second Life, video games in general (especially modding), collecting toys and figurines, YouTube video essays, and learning about nearly anything. I would say I’m a bit nerdy.

You must be 25 - 45 years old and have you own vehicle. My preference is for a bisexual submissive or submissive-leaning switch of any gender. You must be service-oriented; While service skills can be taught, I require a level of eagerness to serve. You must also have excellent reading and writing skills, as well as a willingness to learn, as you’ll be doing a lot of that. I would love it if you have polyamory or other nonmonogamy experiences, but that’s not required.

As for my preferences, nerdy and passionate people are incredible attractive to me. While appearance isn’t majorly important, I love people with tattoos, alt aesthetics, and or dark hair with pale skin.

I’m not going to rush to slap a collar onto you. We will have increasingly long trial periods where my requirements will get more and more intense.

I am only interested in someone local, and I will not consider a long distance arrangement. You must be able to see me in person at least one day a month, although closer to once a week is best. We will be meeting in vanilla public first. If things progress to the bedroom, I cannot host. Either you will host, or we will get a hotel.

If you’re interested, please send me a respectful message with your age, gender & sex, where you live, major kinks & limits, and how you think you fit into what I describe here.