Hello there!

I'm a 30-year-old BBW on an self-improvement journey, looking to become a homemaker for the right Dominant man. While I currently have what could be called androgynous nerd vibe, I'm looking to develop a much more feminine and 40s and 50s inspired alt aesthetic, especially as I lose weight. I have short dyed auburn hair that I'm growing out, a love for dogs, live music, and the occasional trip to a nude beach.

I'm White, 5'4", and around 260 lbs. Despite my size, I'm now quite active and working on becoming my best self, inside and out. I'm also very service-oriented and love making my partner feel special. While I've been married and divorced twice, I've grown a lot from those experiences.

I'm sexually experienced, kinky, and submissive with a history in the local polyamory, swinging, and kink scenes. While sexual compatibility is important, PLEASE don’t focus too much on sex in the beginning; I want so much more than that.

I am eager to take on the role of a supportive and nurturing partner. While my domestic skills might be a little rusty, I'm excited to learn and improve, embracing the homemaker duties of creating a warm and loving home. I’m open to either monogamy or nonmonogamy, depending on what works best for us.

While I’d like to continue working part-time, I'm seeking a simple, fulfilling life as a devoted homemaker and domestic slave. I dream of creating a welcoming home filled with warmth and love. My days would be spent whipping up delicious meals, keeping the house cozy and clean, and ensuring everything is just right for your return from work. I find joy in the little things—ironing your shirts, making your favorite dish, and planning our weekends together.  

I'm looking for a man, preferably over 30, who is politically moderate to conservative. Financial security and a good career is very appealing in this context. You should be very intelligent, both generally and conversationally. I'm attracted to men who are White or mixed race with a primarily White appearance, and you should be muscular and strong, while other aspects of body composition are mostly irrelevant.

A natural leader who is dominant both in and out of the bedroom is ideal. You should be willing and able to provide guidance and structure, as I'm looking for someone to take charge. Ideally, you don't want kids and don't have small children. Loving animals, especially dogs, is a must.

I live in Titusville, Florida, although I’m open to eventually relocating anywhere in Florida. I need to stay in Florida as long as my parents are alive, and they are not going anywhere soon. Please do not contact me unless you are local. I’m willing to travel up to an hour to meet with you. I try to meet after speaking for a few days, as assessing our chemistry in person is important to me.

If you think we might be a good match, send me a message! I’m not on Reddit often, so please be prepared to move to a messaging app or texting early on.