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Another shock…now chemo?
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I was diagnosed with ILC - in Dec 2023 and have been told multiple times I wouldn’t need chemo. Had a lumpectomy that Dec (with a SLNB that came back clean) and just had a DMX a little over a week ago.

Now that pathology from the mastectomy has come back, it seems like I was closer to stage 2 than my doctors originally thought and they’re recommending 4 rounds of TC (taxotere and cytoxan).

I’m just in shock. I still have drains, I’m currently boobless, and I was not expecting this news today. I have my first infusion in June and now I have to start thinking about freezing my eggs and cold capping. Both are way more expensive than I imagined. I’m 31 and recently married with no kids yet but hopeful for them in the future.

This is just a lot! I feel similar now to when I was first diagnosed. This is mostly a vent but if anyone has good tips for cold capping or financial resources for cold capping/egg freezing I’d be grateful. I’ll eventually do my own research I’m just still feeling a bit shocked.

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My original pathology from the lumpectomy included a low MammaPrint score, so between that and the fact nothing was found in my lymph nodes I was pretty confident I wouldn’t need chemo. But I have lobular BC which is a sneaky little bitch! The tumors are harder to measure because they’re so much less cohesive than other tumors and harder to see on imaging. It sounds like they had a hard time staging me because of that.

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It is through Paxman! I’m at Dana Farber in Boston for treatment and they got me all set up with them (I’ve just filled out the initial paperwork so far), so I actually didn’t even realize there were other options.

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Maine! Getting treatment in Mass

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They told me about $2k at the hospital, I just filled out the paperwork for Paxman. There was a financial aid piece that I filled out but I’m not sure what that will look like

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Yes that would be great! Thanks so much 🥰

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