I'm disabled. I finally got the most accessible job I could've possibly imagined, and I was doing great, except the stress was enough to blow my health to bits. I went to 5 doctors and 2 ER visits and lost my job.

Original plan: get a job and insurance, get my own place, divorce my husband.

Revised plan: okay, now we probably have no choice but to stay roommates, but we can still file--

Reality: our state won't grant a divorce if you're living together.

What the shit. He's long since moved on, I live together with him and his partner, and he supports me bc the only other option is me moving in with my parents across the country and that'd be a nightmare of a custody battle. We've been broken up for ages. JUST LET US BE DIVORCED, JESUS CHRIST