How do you know if someone is using you? My crush since I was like 12 started taking an interest in me, flirting and telling me he likes me. That was in the start of December. Slowly he has stopped talking to me more and more, he doesn't want to come over to hang out, he has cancelled several times on me. He ended up staying he wanted to be friends for now as he is having rage issues, he is taking steroids to gain more muscle so its causing him to get ragey. We used to talk so much. And now its like he only talks to me when he wants sex, which we have done 3 times now. He said from the start he doesn't want to play with my head or anything but I feel like that is exactly what he is doing and like he doesn't care anymore. Anytime I try talking to him he barely responds or will just ignore me. I feel like I should just stop talking to him, since I seem to be making all of the effort here, but I am so worried he could still like me and me dropping him will screw up the possibility of us dating. I like him so much but I hate feeling this way and I feel like I can't talk to him about it. And my ex wants to get back together, he is the father of my 2 year old daughter and I still think I like him. But I like my crush so much and want to be with him so much. I don't know what to do or think.