This is kind of a semi-serious post. I’ve been divorced from my ex-wife for two years, and that time she has taken up all of my hobbies, joined facebook groups that I was already a part of, and copies every single activity I do with the kids. If I get a zoo membership, she gets a zoo membership. If I take them to the bookstore, she takes them there. I bought rollerblades so she did, too.

Most recently I bought the kids a tent and told them they could camp in the yard. Well, she made sure to buy and set up a tent for her yard before they even came back to me.

Is this obsessive behavior or is she just competing? Should I call her on this weird stuff or just ignore? She’s very high conflict so I’m leaning towards just ignoring.