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Subreddit Rules
Post Title Guidelines
When creating a submission, your post title must include:
- Your age
- An identification tag (in brackets) - Examples: 22 [f4m], [m4f], [f4f], [m4m], [t4f], [t4m], [m4r], [f4r], [t4r], [t4t].
Tagging Legend:
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M - Male/Man
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F - Female/Woman
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T - Transgender
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R - Redditor/Anyone/All
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M - Male/Man
- #Location
- A condensed version of what you are looking for
An example title: 22 [f4m] #Allston. Just feel like chatting.
Do Not Post Your Ad More Than Once Per 5 days
Users that are not verified with r/bostonr4r are limited to one post per 5 days. Posts in excess will be removed. Deleting your posts and reposting will be considered as a violation, as will posting the same ad using multiple usernames. Repeated violation of this rule with result in a ban.
Users may become "verified" on r/bostonr4r and may post once per day.
Tag Posts w/ NSFW Content
While NSFW links and content are allowed, they should always be tagged as such.
If your post or comment is not tagged as NSFW it will be removed until that has been fixed.
No Transactions
Selling posts or those alluding to sales of any kind are not allowed on r/bostonr4r. If you want to sell, please head over to r/sexsells. Posts regarding selling will be removed.
This includes solicitations of partners for production of sexual content, including OnlyFans or similar.
If you interact with an OP who tells you that he/she is selling, please screenshot it and send us a Mod Mail so that we may take action.
Zero tolerance. There are no second chances with this rule.
Do Not Post Identifying Information
DO NOT POST, SHARE, OR EVEN HINT TO EMAIL ADDRESSES, KIK, SNAPCHAT, PHONE NUMBERS, etc.
Save these for PMs, not public posts or comments. If you see users sharing such information, please hit the report button so that a mod can review it. Repeated offenses can and may lead to a ban.
Respect the Privacy of Others
Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends, or asking questions about someone's past. All such posts will be removed and the posting user will be banned.
No Impersonation
Do not pretend to be someone other than who you are. This includes deliberate misrepresentation of gender or sexuality.
This is not intended to apply to those transitioning or with gender dysphoria.
Please message the moderators if you have a question about this.
Do not comment to say "messaged"
If you respond to a user's post, they receive a notification. There is no need to leave a comment that says "I messaged you", "sent a DM", or similar. Comments should add to the conversation.
Do not harass r/bostonr4r users
Do not harass any r/bostonr4r users. That means being kind in response and in comment. It includes not responding to posts that aren't targeted at you (for example, do not respond to an F4F post if you are not a woman), and it includes not sending unsolicited nudes. Harassing, badgering, insulting, or diminishing users may result in an immediate permanent ban.
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