I'm in a weird place in life. Most of my friends have kids and we've drifted apart... And I've found myself with few hobbies and no one to go with. I've been mostly asexual and haven't pursued relationships in my younger years. And it would be nice for that to change. I have a career as a software engineer, own a house and life feels a bit like its on cruise control at this point.
I had a room mate that helped me a bit, she'd describe me as feminine in bed. But I had an issue where I usually didn't finish. I enjoy just being naked with someone more than sex. In the shower, in bed, on the couch w/e. Its partly because it takes so long that I'd end with significant irritation, especially with condoms. I'm not sure I'm looking to have sex with any one yet. A friend first would be great and someone that is patient. I don't just flip a switch and its on...
Currently I'm laid off and using this as an opportunity to take some time off. I'm going to start looking again after the holidays. But I'm looking for a friend that... idk is open to w/e. I've got a trash bag of excess weed I want to cook into gummies or something and I'm open to trying some new things.
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