A different sort of ask here and so in order to set the stage, I will provide background. I’m very happily married to my college sweetheart. After a couple monogamous decades, we have been experimenting some and for the most part having a great time with it. We have had sporadic, enjoyable experiences comprising MFM, couples play, and select solo dating. We are not into clubs or parties. I’m straight, and so is wifey. We have kids, are civically engaged in our Boston suburb, and have visible careers. As you may imagine it’s all a pretty major secret for us.
I’m looking for an arrangement one could label “a sanctioned affair.” I’d love the excitement of seeing someone on occasion, under ostensibly naughty and illicit circumstances, but circumstances that ultimately remain above board because my spouse approves. I work downtown and can make time in the city. Wifey would happily confirm her approval. I’m happy to spoil in the form of nice drinks/meals/hotels.
I’m 44, tall, educated/successful, athletic, hung, etc. I recognize this will be off-putting and/or just plain weird as hell to many. But if it resonates at all and you spend time in Boston, I’d love to hear from you.
I can’t know for sure for whom this will appeal, but I’d imagine it’s a younger professional also working in Boston who has thought about being with a married man but stopped short of acting on it due to ethical considerations. In the scenario I have in mind, excitement, naughtiness AND ethicality all remain intact.
Hit me up if into it!!
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