MM 52, 6’1 and 170lbs and running fit – tall, dark and handsome technical professional type. I’m usually clean-shaven (trying out a close beard)/well groomed along with brown hair (w/little or no grey) and bluish/grey eyes. I’m a father and work full time but committed to making time for exciting activities. I love laughing/joking around, live music, human touch, and meeting new people. Words that might describe me (IMHO) witty, trustworthy, calm (channel surfer dude ‘80s), thoughtful, intelligent, generous and fun. I’m a bit of an introvert/shy - tbh but not going to let that stop a bit of extra fun. I’m located near Bedford/Lexington area and I’m fully vaccinated.

I want a ‘friend’ who is easy-going, warm, intelligent, drama free, attractive, healthy libido, extroverted, a bit naughty and physically fit (5k runners go to top of list-lol). Needless to say - please no chain smokers, heavy drinkers, or sugar-babies. Not into drugs - I don’t want to venture into the dark side of humanity or break laws. If you like the Ganja (420), not a problem for me.

I know that maybe a bit weird/unusual but I’m looking for something quite specific as an end goal. I’m a guy who would love to dance/chat/party at swinger clubs🕺 💃 . The problem is that my wife doesn’t like these clubs so I’m looking for a middle-aged woman to enjoy a night out every few weeks. My wife will know about these date-nights. If you are married - I don’t want to be part of any hostility/secrets so clear beforehand with spouse.

There is no expectation for physical activity between us. If additional activities are desirable for both parties, full consent/boundaries would need to be established. That being said we will be dancing/clubbing together so probably a bit of bumping/grinding on dance floor together at a minimum.

As usual course, first meet would be a daytime coffee/walk to see if we connect. Followed by additional meetups for walks/lunch (other ideas??). We would get to know each other a bit before the main event(s). Slow and steady will win the race. We can photo share early or just meet irl - it’s up to you.

Why swinger friendly club? Good question… First of all - I’ve only been to one so far so my knowledge is limited. We tried club on the North Shore which I liked but wife didn’t like at all. I enjoyed the freedom to dance without some twenty something looking at us with disdain because of our age. I appreciate the swinger mentality of accepting and partying in a relaxed environment. Not going to lie - I love wild and naughty women. The end game is that I want to laugh, people watch, make friends and dance in a fun non-judgemental environment. You could call me swinger-adjacent.

So why go with me? Another great question. Sure there are hundreds of men on online looking for fun sexy middle-aged women, what makes me different? Why me - honestly I don’t know but here are some benefits to responding to me. No worries- you will know me and my identity, I can pick up/drop off, take care of club entry, drinks 🍹, dinner (if wanted), have your back and make sure you get home safe (I don’t drink and drive). Your activities at the club will not be limited or judged by me - you are completely free to mingle and have a ball.

Real world/experienced swinger would be great but not a requirement. You could also be just looking to get out of the house and blow off a bit of steam. I’ll be chill and enjoy.

Lastly… This would be a friendship based on mutual respect, dignity and honesty

Let’s have a blast together!!