My girlfriend (29F) and I (51M) are a in a long-term committed relationship looking for bi- or heteroflexible-male play partners (Boston area) who are vaccinated, STI-free, and open-minded. We’re both triple-vaccinated professionals, wear masks in public, and are tested weekly. We’re very experimental and open to trying new things. Looking for easy-going folks who want to explore together. We're new but not newbies. 😂

Who we hope to find:

• Kind, caring, curious, smart, fun, sexy, adventurous guy
• Being open to bi-play is a must. It's fine if your profile doesn't say that, please do know that's what we're looking for. 😏
• Must be STI/STD-free and vaccinated. You don’t have to have recent results as we talk online, but when we reach a point of meeting in person, we’d like to be able to present recent results to each other to be on the safe side.
• If you're a switch or a sub, that would be a huge plus. Looking for people open to being led in bed at least sometimes. Activities will remain mostly on the swinger-side of things, so not many BDSM elements added unless discussed and agreed upon beforehand.
• Must be very comfortable texting, video calling, etc. We use Telegram. You should be open to using it as well or it just won’t work.

If you’re interested, **we’d love to hear something interesting about you**. What’s something you've done that you’d love to do again? Or what’s one of your fantasies you’re open to sharing? Ultimately, we’re looking to find someone open-minded and who we could possibly call a friend and/or continual play-partner.

What's in it for you?

Fun playtime with adventurous, open-minded people! We are smart, motivated, caring, nice, chill folks and hopefully, we all gain new lifestyles friendsWe respect your privacy and safety. We want to make sure everyone is comfortable and having fun.

FAQ / Tips

• Messages that demonstrate that you read our post and invested time in crafting your outreach are mostly likely to engage us
• We love messages with words! Guys who can write have a leg up!
• It's fun to read messages where we know you read this post!
• If your profile says "Dom" then you'll want to share a bit more about whether you're up for switching. Generally we don't respond to "dom" profiles (see above what we're looking for)
• We don't drink alcohol or do drugs.
• We get that some guys aren't comfortable putting "bi / heteroflexible" or "sub/switch" on their profiles for various reasons. Totally fine, but if that's the case, you'll want to share a bit more in your message(s). It's more fun if you just share what you're into...we don't want to have to guess or ask 21 questions.
• We don't talk about politics a ton, but it'd be hard to match with someone not reasonably progressive.
• We are open to exploring MFM, MMF, hotwifing, light BDSM, and more. It will start small and low stakes. If things go well, and trust builds we can try more.
• No, we're not looking to play tonight. We want to get to know you a bit here or on Fet. If things go well, we'll set up a group chat on Telegram with the three of us. If there is a fit and chemistry then hopefully that progresses to a meet-and-greet. We meet for coffee or whatever and chat. Play time comes when we're all comfortable. 😏