EDIT - applications for single guys are closed. Thanks everyone who applied, and was detailed, organized, polite and respectful. As usual, we got roughly ten times more applications then we could invite, but some of you may also be chosen next time...

Hi Boston area Redditors,

We're just a week away from our August 10th party, and in that time, we've had both former guests and new ones sign up to attend, and the best of these applicants have been offered invites! All of these couples and single women represent both an amazing group of people that I know, and applicants that I can't wait to meet and bring into our circle. This is the last time I'll be posting about this event before it kicks off, so if you're seeing this event for the first time, or haven't followed up with us since the last posting, now's the time, before we close the guest list.

The turnout has been so great, that my guest list of ~35, still has room for a handful of single male attendees. GUYS - If this sounds like something you are interested in, read on below, and message me once you've read through! If you don't read the below post carefully before replying, it'll be pretty obvious to me, and I'll have to discard your application.

The event we're planning has been excellent, reliably, due to the high quality of the guests we've invited. If you think you might be one of those high quality guys, then send us a message

*Please impress us, your potential hosts, with your initial email. We're only able to pick a few people who will apply, so please show us that you are socially apt, respectful pleasant, and reliable. We care more about you being an easygoing, pleasant person, than being super hot, super hung or anything of the sort. Attitude and compatibility are everything.

If we don't get any good applicants, we will easily carry on without them, but we always try to balance the party, so please, do your best, and give us a great reason to invite you.

If you're not free and 100% willing to come to Lowell on the evening of August 10th, then please just hold off until the next event. If you're one of the single guys who, despite all prior warnings, early-messaged me about this event already, then please don't bother messaging again.

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Previously provided info about the party can be found below:

Hi everyone - we're setting it up again! You may know/have heard that there's been an excellent, laid-back swinging party hosted regularly in Lowell MA, about every 3-6 months, drawn mostly from the ranks of r/bostonr4r. I'll handle the screening and organizing of another group party on Saturday, August 10th, with the eager help of many of the excellent people who have also attended before. I’ll ensure that this event lives up to the high standards of all 8 previous parties. The formula used before now works great, and we won’t be messing with it.

Things to note:

We have a great group of people who have been here before, and we’re hoping to add lots of new and excellent additions. To ensure everyone is as great as claimed, we'll voice verify with all of our new guests before the event. Gives us a little chance to talk, get a feel for your attitude and go over the important topics. We can do phone or video chat, and so we'll need to know how and when to reach you and your date (if any) by your preferred method.

As of this posting, we're only looking for couples and single girls, to keep the party balanced. If you're a single guy, help us out, and don't message unless/until you see my follow-up post for single guys, closer to the event. We won't be inviting anyone who asks before then, so help yourself out too - if you're a single guy, wait for the post requesting your application and don’t get blacklisted. If you're a previous attendee I'm not in in contact with yet, just shoot me a message.

All of these events are fun and no-pressure parties, and people will mingle, talk, play, and enjoy themselves, at whatever they choose. Guests’ comfort and good time will as always, be the top priority. Couples and singles participate just with each other or swap, whatever they choose. The space we’re using has a few different rooms and areas with beds, so you can be secluded or in the middle of everything, as you prefer. The massage table is a recent addition to these parties, and people claim to love it, so massage between couples or other guests is always an option.

We had a great time at the last event in May, and the group was phenomenal, both returning guests and new arrivals enjoyed themselves immensely. It’s a young and fun group of sexy and interesting people, and the vibe is very laid-back and playful.

Snacks and soda will be provided, as will be condoms and lube. Alcohol is BYOB, and bring your own toys encouraged!

All body types and ages are welcome, and unlike some gatherings, there is no entrance fee. We ask attendees to please be honest about their interest level in the party, and their ability to attend on the 10th. It’s tricky to host a balanced party if people don't show up, and we would rather know if you’re a "maybe: then a "definitely" so we can plan.

If you have questions for me, feel free to ask. I don't post on here much (using this name), but I've been to every one of the previous events, and have helped out as much as possible with the later ones, so I'm honored to have the ability to make this happen for guests old and new. Reddit messages (not the new Reddit chat, please) will work fine for the initial point of contact. With any luck, we’ll be adding many of you to the guest list, very soon!