Hey all~

Me:

6’4 strong dad bod/chubby, light eyes, bearded. Work all the time expanding construction business and taking college classes among multiple other weekly hobbies/pursuits. People in my life would describe me as many wonderful adjectives, though above all I am patient and watch out for others safety. Intelligent, funny, kind, goofy and sane guy that looks out for others. I live for conversation, travel, and creative pursuits.

What I want:

Lately, time is short in my life. I’m looking to try something new with a sub that I connect with (conversationally and sexually). I’d like to have monthly dates in which I will plan out and decide the date in every aspect. I will choose the destination, the drinks, your meal choice. Where we go, to whose place, etc. I will direct you in all ways, and all you’ll need is yourself. I want to dismantle and analyze you, recognize every detail no matter how trivial, and use it with my discretion (and our safe word) against you verbally or sexually later on. Completely and utterly dictate the flow of the date to start, and then follow suit with sex later on. I am rather kinky, post history will show that. (CNC, free use, domming, sadism, bondage, much more)Typically I find myself enjoying details of people I connect with. Having a hands off approach while watching them express themself. This will be different, as the intention is to direct you in such a way that pleases me. To have you be the reflection of my desire. Tell you to wear a sultry black dress and heels, arrive at the bar by 9. Espresso martinis and a charcuterie board while I ask all about you, in the least trivial ways. Walk within my grasp and under my grip, etc. You get the picture.

You:

I have no “type.” I have had deep attraction and chemistry with women of all races, body types, backgrounds, etc. I do expect, however, that you know what you want and what you can handle. That you are intelligent, expressive, and ready to call a safe word or advocate for yourself when you need to. Vivacious is a word I use over and over again. I tend not to mesh well with people that lack passion, motivation, or interest in things. People that expect standard or contrived responses to things. And, while typically I enjoy the full breadth of expressiveness from the passionate people of the world, this time you’re just my well manicured doll. Any feature outside your body and willingness to go along is just lovely detail.

Also body pics on profile. Safe sex is always a necessity.

If you’re interested, feel free to message me. If not, be well and happy scrolling~