Hi! I'm a 28 year old woman looking for someone to develop a unique relationship with!

Me
I'm successful, ambitious, and extremely independent. I really value humor, charisma, and intellect. I love quick-witted banter, deep theoretical discussions, and overall striking a nice balance between playful and earnest. I'm 5'4, hwp (about a size 4), blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm attractive and expect you to be as well. My life is extremely busy and dynamic at this juncture, but also incredibly fun and rewarding. I hope you're in a similar place in life. For hobbies, I love to read, cook/bake, travel, hike, and camp. I listen to an embarrassing amount of podcasts. I also love exploring the Boston restaurant scene and going to shows (comedy shows, BSO, musicals, etc.).

What I'm looking for
I am ideally looking for something that is long-term and consistent. I am not necessarily looking to date/enter a romantic relationship but I'm certainly open to the possibility. I am, however, looking for someone I can genuinely connect with, so having shared interests/perspectives/lifestyles is important.

At its core I'm looking for a rather intense d/s relationship. My everyday life is demanding and requires me to be dominant and outspoken, and being able to drop that and submit to a strong man helps balance me out. That said, I am not interested in role-playing, I want a relationship where the dynamic is integral and real. For this reason, I prefer my partner to lead with their interests in mind (I like when my guy is a bit selfish) because it's more genuine. This allows the dynamic to organically evolve based on what turns us both on and what feels most natural. I don't have a lot of specific kink expectations, but to give you a quick sense of what I'm into: freeuse, cnc, tpe, ddlg, humiliation, degradation, watersports. I absolutely love the mental side of submission - I enjoy some other darker themes that we can discuss in private. But in general, I would say my flavor of kink is not for the faint of heart :)

You
You're single, or perhaps ENM/poly. You're at least my age, but ideally older. You're physically attractive, in decent shape, and ideally tall. If you have any doubts about your attraction, please self-select out (this also serves to filter out those with low self esteem, as we will not be a good match). You have good style and a clean presentation. You're an excellent communicator, intelligent, adventurous, and funny. I love people that are comfortable in any social situation - nothing is sexier to me. It's not a requirement but I have a strong preference for those who hold professional degrees. At the very least, please have your shit together. That also goes for mental health - I am not looking to be someone's therapist (the plight of the emotionally available 20something woman).

And finally, my privacy is my number one priority. I realize this is a rather demanding post - I have high expectations but that also means I'm prepared to meet *your* high expectations as well. If you think we might be a good match, please shoot me a message with a brief physical description and a little about yourself and what you're looking for! Thank you for reading my post :)