Hello,

I want to talk to girls interested in building a serious relationship. Obviously, we need to see if we're each other's type and if we're compatible. I have a demanding but decent job, which means it's quite slow to meet people. My experience on dating apps was too incompatible. So I'm trying here. I'm not looking for quick sex or anything like that. This is a genuine attempt to find someone compatible and building love with.

About me:

• Location: Between living and work I'm around Worcester and Cambridge
• Age: I'm in my late 20s, responsible, organized, in control of my life
• Appearance: Average height, in decent shape, more functional than aesthetic
• Personality: Masculine, loving, dark, caring, hard on life but soft on my lover, attached, focused, provider, you get the idea; I'm reliable, organized, in control of my life. I'm not conventionally desirable (i.e., I don't attract conventional girls), but I am attractive in my own way (most of my relationships were with misfits who wanted deep relationships) — and I love how I am, I've no insecurity nor hostility whatsoever, just describing for clarity
• Sexuality: You could say I'm straight and demisexual, I have intense emotional and sexual desire but they build on each other. I can't really be intimate with someone I don't have a profound bond with. So I'm really not interested in hooking up, I'm craving bonding and intimacy and affection first and foremost.
• Plan: I'm ambitious, but reserved and private. Success to me isn't about impressing society, but to be independent and strong for our own needs. Again, not judging others, just my preference.

Seeking:

• Location: ≤50 miles from where I am, ideally
• Age: Preferably younger than me
• Any overlap with what I said above. I'm quite accommodating and I adapt to my partner. However I do have strong preferences: Femininity, in shape, comfortable with being taken care of, enjoys being worshipped and loved, enjoys being heard and has a strong voice, is not “submissive” in a partiarchal way but knows how to submit playfully, is not “dominant” in an abusive way but knows how to lead the relationship with me; I'm looking for a partner, not an objectified girl. I like an ambitious girl with goals. I like someone who likes to be at home purely for the sake of intimacy, but also likes to explore and try new things with me.

Anyway, if any of this sounds interesting to you, reach out. My end goal is to live with someone I love, but that may take a long time to build trust, depending on how we get along.

Thanks for reading, and cheers ♥