I’m organizing a sauna night for gay, bi, & curious men\* in the Boston area. There are so few spaces to cultivate in-person community that this feels worth the effort.    

The plan is to meet up at a sauna & spa in the greater Boston area that is comfortable, classy, pretty affordable, and has a capacity of 22 pre-registered guests. They offer three-hour, single gender time spots. The norm is nudity, though some guys wear underwear.

I’d love to organize a very chill, relaxed meet-up for an evening in January. If it’s a success and guys are into it, maybe it could become a regular thing to get us all through the dark, cold winter months.

This isn’t a plan for a sex party. I’m thinking of a fun, open vibe: checking each other out, chatting, making new friends, some casual sensual touching or mutual massage – but nothing out of hand, out of respect for the awesome staff there and so that we don't get kicked out. Just relaxing, chill naked time with other guys that are into guys. And if you go home with someone afterward, bonus right?

Me: I’m 42yo, 5’10, 185 lbs, white, fit, lift weights 4x week, brown hair, blue eyes & trim facial hair. Gay. I’m looking for more gay & bi friends and love spending naked time with other men.

I’d prefer that this be for men age 22-49. Generally looking for average to fit guys (though if you're rocking a sexy dead bod, say hey).

Interested in getting in on this?

1) DM me with the following: Age, height, weight, a basic physical description, your sexual orientation, the reason this sounds cool to you, and a shirtless pic. Face not necessary. (I can recip if you want, so that you know I’m not just pic collecting).

2) If you seem cool and serious about this I’ll DM you the location, the date, & the link to sign up. They don't ask for payment until you're there.

3) Add a comment to the post when you've registered. Goal is 22 so our group can fill up the place! Seven guys are already registered.

4) After you've registered I'll add you to a group chat on Reddit (gonna keep this all on one platform) so you can get a feel for who's participating, introduce yourself if you like, share pics, etc.

Hope to hear from serious guys into showing up for this!

\Update*: There's been lots of interest from a variety of handsome gents, so I think this should be a great time! If you're nervous about this or it feels like a leap in the dark, just know that the guys signed up are cool and legit. We'll help you relax and feel into a good time.