Hello! I (23F) am looking for a long term-potentially forever- partner and dominant in or around the Boston area. Ideally, my future partner would not be significantly (10 years) older than me. I am also exclusively interested in a monogamous relationship.
Some of my hobbies or interests at the moment include:
- Food- pasta
- Drink- tea
- Outside- rollerskating (I’m trying to learn but it’s rocky 😅)
- Inside- embroidery, baking
- TV- Yellowstone, Arcane (I’m not caught up in either, pls don’t spoil the end. I’m not generally a big TV person)
- Music- Hozier, Chappell Roan (according to my 2024 wrapped)
- Books- I’ve been reading through the Sarah J Maas universe, slowly but surely.
My interests, vanilla and kinky, do shift day to day and over time.
At the moment, I am not working and in school exclusively. I live in North Quincy. In the interest of full transparency, I am chronically ill. I’m not going to get into the details here as it is a bit rare and identifiable, but I am more than comfortable to answer questions. I do have quite a bit of control over my schedule and routine.
As mutual attraction is important, I will include that I am 5’7” and an hourglass figure. I have auburn/brown hair and light eyes. I don’t have any requirements of my partner as I find I’m often attracted to ranges of people.
As I said in the title, I am seeking a long term relationship. For me, my partner/girlfriend/boyfriend is the same person as my dominant/mommy/daddy. I’m quite flexible to a range of dynamics. I like a certain amount of caring and of structure, but the balance finds itself in my experience. I would like stability and a firm, caring hand.
I am looking for a bedroom and daily dynamic. I would like some structure. I’m open to this varying for a couple simple 24/7 rules or a higher protocol dynamic bearing on TPE. Of course, this and everything would build as trust and our bond strengthens.
I also enjoy some of the more service oriented aspects of being a submissive. I wouldn’t go as far as classifying myself as a slave. However, I would enjoy helping with domestic tasks or your daily routine as long as I feel appreciated.
I believe trust and communication is the basis for the best relationships and even more so for D/s dynamics. I find fulfillment in the mutual support and vulnerability. A relationship-and dynamic-is about building ourselves to what we envision, being one’s best self.
I’ll add my limit below but including a kink/fetish list feels too revealing:
Hard Limits - Closed fist striking, kicking - Drawing blood - Damage lasting > 2 weeks - Breath play - Water sports/scat/vomit/anything adjacent - Incest/fauxcest - Rimming - giving (I am genuinely neutral on receiving) - ED or weight gain/loss stuff - Cuck or infidelity scenes - Being called “little girl” - Air chokes Soft Limits - Hair pulling - this is a very slow build-as-we-go area - Strikes above the shoulders - Any sexual filming, recording, photos of me anywhere but my devices
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