I (40M) want to use my mouth and hands to bring you to orgasm. Here’s my vision. We meet in a neutral public space to have a tea, feel out a connection, and talk about expectations and boundaries. After we both feel comfortable, we retire to one of our homes where we can get better acquainted. I’d like to bathe your body without any intentional sexual contact, maybe a little kissing, but I mostly want to familiarize myself with your body, relax you, and build sexual tension.

After I’m finished toweling you off, I’d lead you to the bed, offer a fresh towel and give you a massage. I’d start on your shoulders and arms, move down to your back, then after working your lower back/upper glutes, I’d move down to your ankles and calves and work my way back up. Once your back is finished, you’ll turn over and work the front of your legs, and only then will I start to approach your vulva.

I’ll start with a gentle exploration of your labia and inner thigh, as I get to know what you respond to, and offer teasing kisses and gentle brushes from my hands. Only when you’re ready will I dive in for a deep kiss, and I expect to be down for some time, listening carefully to your instructions and body language.

If you’re comfortable with some digital penetration, we can enhance the sensation with that. If not, we can keep it all superficial and oral. Everything above is negotiable. It’s all ultimately up to you. You set the boundaries, and I hold myself responsible to lift you to orgasm within them.

I’m 5’8” with a dad bod, live in Somerville, work in life sciences, and enjoy biking and reading. I love all kinds of women. I’m open to all ages, races, creeds, and body shapes. I am looking for someone HIV and HSV negative, as I am both of those.

If you respond, please tell me a little about yourself, what you’re hoping for from an encounter. Chats or dms are fine. Looking to meet in the new year.

Thanks so much for reading. Looking forward to chatting soon. Happy headhunting!