I am a 42 yo, professional, well-educated Dom, 6'0" HWP, clean, attractive, rugged good looking guy. I'm genuine, enjoy reading, movies, and very much value and enjoy my career. I have a creative artsy side as well, may come out with you my sub.

I am an experienced Dom; I can be very strict, and demanding at times, though that is not my preferred mode, I'd rather be having fun together with my submissive. I am safe and always take care of my sub. Essentially, it is my view that a Dom, even if he chooses to play with his sub rough or hard at times, must care about and protect the submissive partner who has provided herself for him. I can be very affectionate, and playful love lots of sexual, sensual mischief. I enjoy gentle domination and spending time with my sub taking care of you and your needs, cravings being nurturing and supportive. But I also need, and crave the harder rougher sometimes more extreme domination, Sir/slut play, making you as mine, taking and using you how I desire in whatever way I desire for my pleasure. ​ I also very much enjoy the communication that must be part of any D/s play. Talking about expectations, how the play makes you feel, how it affects you is important parts of D/s. Talking about your desires, cravings and fantasies freely with out judgment. I crave intensity, and passion part of the reason I am attracted to D/s relationships, and finding own a sub that craves pleasing me in every way she can, as I would want to do for her. If there is something you are really interested in I do not mention I would certainly be interested in knowing about it.

I am most attracted to intelligent submissives. Your experience level does not have to be extensive but an open mind, high interest and intelligence are musts. Physically, I am especially attracted to athletic, well proportioned women, but as I stated previously, your mind is most important. I prefer a sub who can appreciate my love of perversity and control has few limits willing to learn and do what it takes to please her Dom. Hopefully, you appreciate the exploration of sensual and sexual pleasures of BDSM and other kinky play, has few limits, and are willing to learn and do what it takes to enjoy such pleasures together.

You act as though you are a well-put together, maybe even 'vanilla' person out in in the public world. In control of your life, constrained by societies' conventions and frustrated them. A woman for all of your outward appearance of self-reliance and strength There is something secretly submissive in you that longs to be satisfied. You have a deep-seeded desire to lose control and be in the strong hands dominant hands of her Master, to have her limits tested and pushed to grow both as a submissive and a woman, to learn more about herself and her yearning to let go. You ache for an aggressive Dominant man to take control of you, your desires, your body, your sexual desires. You want to feel helpless... dominated... NOT in control. You were made to be fucked. Hard! You want to have your panties ripped off; you are a very sexually kinky girl who needs to be spanked, discipline and used as the sexual toy. You want and crave ownership, to belong to your Dom. A woman for all of her outward appearance of self-reliance and strength has a deep seeded desire to lose control and be in the strong dominant hands of her Dom, to have her limits tested and pushed to grow both as a submissive and a woman, to learn more about herself and her yearning to let go.

I enjoy: Spankings - I tend to like to spank my submissives not just for punishment but for pleasure and enjoyment, until your ass is red and aching. Body, and cock worshiping. Discipline training and punishment. Homework/tasks/orders - things for you to do to show your submission, or that I would like you to do in preparation for getting together, chatting. Might want you to write me about what you did, how it made you feel, what you liked about it or did not like. Or take a pic, video of yourself doing your task for me. I especially love seeing a picture of the panties you wear every day, clips of porn you like, etc. Dress up - seeing my submissive in sexy and naughty clothing, lingerie, corsets, fetish wear. Toy play. Oral sex. Cum play - covering you, creampies, swallowing. Ass play. DDlg. Aftercare. Bisexual or group play exhibitionism.

If this sounds interesting to you, perhaps we could chat? Id love to hear more about what you are looking for/needing from this.