I’m interested in organizing a sauna night for gay, bi, & curious men in the Boston area. There are so few spaces to cultivate in-person community that this feels worth the effort.    

A buddy and I regularly visit a sauna & spa in the area that is comfortable, classy (not sketchy), pretty affordable, and has a sizable capacity for pre-registered guests. They offer three-hour, single gender time spots. The norm is nudity, though some guys wear underwear.

I’d love to organize a very chill, relaxed meet-up for an evening in January. If it’s a success and guys are into it, maybe it could become a regular thing to get us all through the dark, cold winter months.

This isn’t a plan for a sex party – as fun as that might be. I’m thinking of a fun, open vibe: checking each other out, chatting, making new friends, some casual sensual touching or mutual massage – but nothing out of hand, out of respect for the awesome staff there. Just relaxing, chill naked time with other guys that are into guys. And if you go home with someone afterward, bonus right?

Interested in getting in on this?

DM me with the following:

Age, height, weight, a basic physical description, your sexual orientation, the reason this sounds cool to you, and a shirtless pic. (I can recip if you want, so that you know I’m not just pic collecting).

Here's mine: “I’m 42yo, 5’10, 185 lbs, white, fit, lift weights 4x week, brown hair, blue eyes & trim facial hair. Gay. I’m looking for more gay & bi friends and love spending naked time with other men.”

I’d prefer that this be for fit men, age 22-55. It would be awesome to get some generational diversity.

If you seem cool and serious about this I’ll DM you the location and date we’re looking at and a link to register. I can keep track of who’s signed up and send out a “roster” (no names, just basic details) to everyone closer to the date.

I also have thoughts about how we identify one another once at the location, but we can figure that out.

Hope to hear from serious guys who are into showing up for this!