About Me

In my professional life I run a company I founded in business school, and quite enjoy the high risk uncertainty of startup life. I work remotely, primarily from the Back Bay, but occasionally work remotely on trips as well as from the standard assortment of cafes, the Esplanade, etc. When I'm not working, I spend a lot of time outdoors, whether it's hiking around MA or hitting the beach. I play some rec league sports, do the occasional improv show, and see quite a lot of movies in theaters. I'm white with dark hair and hazel eyes, typically well dressed with at least a suit jacket, and nicely groomed.

Me And Kink

I got into kink after college, and then started experimenting with D/s, and most of my relationships over the last 10 years involving it to one extent or another. I prioritize open and honest communication and an ability to express likes, desires, needs, etc. Generally speaking, I skew more towards a Master or Dom than I do a Daddy, providing rules, structure, and training to my subs/slaves. I don't like severe punishment for its own sake, although I can be rough and can have a little sadistic streak on occasion. I prefer my partners ask directly for what they want...ask and you may receive, try and provoke a specific response by being a brat and you may find you get something much less enjoyable than you were hoping for. I would much rather praise and reward, positive reinforcement is a proven training method for a reason!

Kinky Specifics

I've got a fairly wide range of kinks that I'm into, from all kinds of rough play (spanking, manhandling, choking, slapping, etc), to bondage (restraints/gags/cuffs more so than rope), to role play, orgasm control, anal, face fucking, the list goes on. I am a fan of involving other women in play, whether that's FFM, cuckqueaning, or some other variant. With rules and training, I'm not a micromanager, I don't want to decide what you eat or when, or approve your outfits; I may however have a rule specifying exactly what type of outfit you should wear when coming to my place, or what you may wear inside, or how you should address me, etc. Rules are always discussed in advance and usually built up over time.

What I'm Looking For

I would like to find a new longterm sub/slave with rules and structure that extend beyond the bedroom, with what is publicly a vanilla romantic relationship. That being said, if something ends up being more limited or more casual, then that's fine too. I don't care about whether you have experience or not, I do care that you're able to openly communicate about what you want or are interested in. Outside of kink, I dig brains and drive; the subs you wouldn't guess are subs are often the most fun. In terms of appearance, I prefer an athletic, in-shape partner; generally speaking, I am not attracted to BBW or overweight women. As mentioned previously, I do like involving other women so I have a lot of experience with bi, pan, non-hetero partners, but that is not a requirement.

Final Instructions

If the above has struck your interest, send me a message with a few basic details about yourself, what if any experience you have with kink and D/s, and include your favorite color in your first message so I know you can follow instructions!