I’m 43 years old, married, bi, and looking for an easygoing and adventurous FWB who’s up for some discreet, fun exploration. I’ve been bisexual since high school and enjoyed some experimentation but have never dived deeper into this side of my sexuality. I’m hoping to find a like-minded guy to share this journey with—someone who's just as excited about trying new things as I am.

One of the most important dynamics I’m looking for is exploring sensuality and intimacy. Picture lots of kissing, cuddling, affectionate touching, full body worship… basically anything and everything that brings us closer as sexual partners without getting too hung up on labels. I’m not looking for romance or anything so dramatic. I only want to experience a deeper physical intimacy with another man, to explore physical desires that involve our whole body, not just our cocks.

Open communication is also very important to me. I want us to feel free to talk about our deepest desires and urges. To share our kinks and fantasies, exploring them together in a safe and supportive space with zero judgment.

I’m all about keeping things light, fun, and relaxed. The ideal scenario would be to meet up about once a month in a cozy hotel room and enjoy a few hours together—exploring, learning, and experiencing pleasures that we’ve only fantasized about. I want us to be able to enjoy everything from playful teasing to hot oral sessions in an atmosphere where we can both relax and enjoy ourselves fully.

My ideal partner is healthy, a non-smoker, and in relatively good shape. You should be completely comfortable with your sexuality. You get turned-on and excited at the thought of this level of physical intimacy with another man. You feel comfortable opening up your sensual side, to be vulnerable and submissive, to be held in the arms of another man and feel perfectly content. Bonus points if you share common interests with me like working out, hiking, traveling, live music, movies, sci-fi, and James Bond flicks—I’d love it if we had normal everyday things to chat about in addition to the sex!

I’m primarily looking for a partner who’s married/attached, but it’s not a deal breaker if you’re single. No matter your relationship status, total discretion will be a must for both of us.

Our relationship will be fun, casual, and drama-free. We’ll keep our lives separate and respect each other’s routines outside the bedroom. When we’re not having steamy hotel adventures we’d keep in touch over chat, checking in with each other, reminiscing about our past activities and fantasizing about our next adventure.

As for my physical stats: I’m 5'8" and 190 pounds with a solid, masculine build. I’m muscular and I’ve got a few extra pounds that come with a love for good food and a good time. As for what I’m packing, I’m a healthy 5.5 inches, quite thick, and definitely ready to make the most of it.

No pressure, no drama—just some great vibes and a lot of fun. If you’re up for meeting once a month, kicking back in a hotel room, and spending a few hours focused on pleasure and connection, then let’s make it happen.