A couple years ago, I had a success story that ended a 6 year dry spell. (That’s where the username came from!) Now I’m back to try to make it happen again.
Ideally, I’d love something ongoing, but let’s be honest, I’m not going to say no to a one-time thing. However, I think that even though I am not looking for a relationship, I would like to find a meaningful connection. I’ve never really hooked up before my current relationship. I’m not terribly comfortable with meeting with a stranger. Would love some chemistry. Actually, that is super important.
Now, more context, if you’re interested: I am married, have kids, and I am absolutely not looking to change my situation. Things are complicated (ie there are many reasons for the situation to be what it is) and I’ve been thinking about this a lot.
Please don’t judge. Please don’t ask if I’ve talked to my partner. It’s not as simple, and I don’t really want to go into those details. Frankly, I’m just looking for some affection and a little bit of casual and safe fun. For sanity’s sake, I want to do something that will make me feel better.
I’m in my late 30s, in decent shape (average height, slim/fit). I exercise, and eat healthy. Non-smoker. Attractive. Very well-groomed down there. Maybe you are in a similar situation? Or not. I don’t care about your status, but realize that logistics can be more complex if we both are in a similar situation. Age doesn’t really matter. Again, I think that chemistry is key.
Last, I am open to making this mutually beneficial. Whatever that means.
Thanks for reading. Sorry if that was a little too lengthy!
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