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Hello there! I'm looking for a woman who can bring me out of my shell, and help me improve my confidence. I have no experience at all with anyone (even dating), so taking things slow is likely the best course of action. I'm looking for women in their 20's up to early 40's, who live in the northeast US (New England area). ​Due to negative experiences from when I was younger, I'm scared around women, and I'm looking to overcome that fear with positive experiences. ​Please note also that I have ADHD and anxiety. ​I am NOT looking for a mistress. Looking for a friend with benefits to try a few dates with, who can help improve my confidence, and maybe it might become something more. I at least want a female friend I can hang out with now and then, maybe dance with at an event.

I stand at 5' 10" and weigh around 180. Though I have a little bit of fat still left, I'm gradually working to get rid of it. I play videogames quite a bit, and sometimes watch anime, but I've also gotten into oil painting, a bit of gardening, and mountain biking. (I'm also told I'm quite good at giving shoulder and back massages!) Also, please put the word "raspberries" somewhere in your first message, so I know you're a real person and read my ad. I am looking to talk to people on here first before adding them elsewhere.

If things lead to sex: I consider myself a submissive, hoping to have my virginity taken by a woman with a strapon. I'm not entirely sure if I want a relationship as well, though I'm hoping to find out for myself. Cat ears and cosplay are also a big plus!

I may need a woman who's willing to host, since options are limited for fun in my city, but if necessary I can host. I do not have a car, but I live close to the train station in Lowell, so I CAN meet up in Boston by rail. It is also possible for me to take the railroad out to Boston, and then to Springfield or Salem, and a number of other outlying towns as well, but this can take some time. Basically, if you have a rail station nearby, I could use the MBTA commuter rail to head out to your city or town. Otherwise, I'll need you to drive to my place, whether to visit, meet me somewhere public, or to bring me back to your place, in which case I'll cover for the gas, but only if I see you in person. For the first encounter, I'd like to meet somewhere public for a date, to get to know you better, since I'm nervous around women.

Summary

Interests: Strapons, cat ears, cosplay, can do a few chores and give massages

Hard limits: Chastity, cuckolding, excessive pain, politics (of ANY kind, this isn't what I'm here for). I also intend to keep my body and face completely shaved, and kindly ask the same of my partner. I'm also not into findom, please stop asking (this includes any mention of "tributes"). You will receive money for gas and your part of the meal for the date will be paid for, after I see you in person and can confirm you are who you say you are. Please also note that if you approach me demanding I surrender my rights to you, I won't reply.

What I can provide: This is a tricky one. I'm hoping to find out someday, but I like to think I'm good for massages, snuggles, someone to talk to, go to the bar with, or a shoulder to cry on. I like to consider myself a compassionate sort. I could also make an oil painting to give to you, but be advised I only paint landscapes for now, not buildings or people.

If you're wondering why my post history only consists of ads, it's because I tend to be shy with social media; I like it better when people get to know me by actually talking to me, rather than going off a post history and drawing their own conclusions ahead of time. The things I've mentioned I like should help get us started. When the time comes, I will verify with either a brief video call, or a picture of me holding up a piece of paper with both our usernames, and I'll ask the same of you.

Want to know more about me? Talk to me. c: The topics mentioned here should help get us started.