I am back looking for my next best friend. Hopefully it is you. This is not my first post. I’ve met someone on here before and while it was fun and amazing unfortunately it came to an end a while ago.

I am married and I have been for a long time. I love her dearly but the spark, the attraction, the flirting has been gone for quite some time. I have no intentions of leaving her but at the same time I need more. By that I mean I want the connection, emotional, mental and sexual. I want to find someone that I can’t get off my mind. Someone that I can’t wait to hear from. I want the silly smiles, the butterflies, the excitement of seeing their message. I want it all.

I have a lot of hobbies and love spending time outdoors. I am a people person and love to hear about you, your day, your life.

My job is uniquely in the sense I have a lot of down time and I work primarily by myself.I do have some availability on nights and weekends but just not as frequent.

I am willing to share pics early on to see if there is mutual attraction.

Since this is not my first post and I have experienced a wide range of replies in the past I feel I should add the following two reasons NOT to message me:

If you are into having a roster and entertaining multiple Men at one time…while that is totally okay… it does mean I am not the one for you. I prefer to give my full attention and energy into one man and I want the same in return.

If you are looking for a quick sexual fix..and want to send me a pic of your dinky within the first day of talking….again I am not the one for you. I prefer to develop a friendship first and let things progress naturally. If I was strictly looking for easy I’d go to a bar… not to be crass but finding something easy has never been difficult for me…first of all I’ve been told I’m ruggedly handsome and have a genuine personality, nothing fake here.

Regardless if we end up talking or not, I do hope everyone reading this finds what it is they are looking for.