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I'm a dad to an infant, and husband to a mom who's struggling through an extended (11 months and going) postpartum period. I'm equally involved with my daughter; I make daycare runs, I change diapers, I take turns watching her, I get up in the night when she cries. I wouldn't expect a medal for any of that, but I wish I didn't get snipped at every time I do something differently than my wife thinks I should. I end up feeling unappreciated, and of course, even though the baby is sleeping through the night, our sex life hasn't picked back up. I'm hanging in, but it's not easy.
I shared a bit of my whiny story because I'm hoping there's a married woman out there reading this who is feeling that same kind of disconnect in her life and her marriage, and I think we can be the cheerleaders we need for each other. If we flirt and talk naughty a bit too? I mean, it's r4r, it's almost mandatory, no? (And you look great. Of course I noticed.) We will, of course, keep it discreet, and we'll go into it just hoping to make each other's days a bit better.
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