I (40M) want to use my tongue to bring you to orgasm. Here’s my vision. We meet in a neutral public space to have a tea, feel out a connection, and talk about expectations and boundaries. After we both feel comfortable, we retire to one of our abodes where we can get better acquainted. I’d like to bathe your body without any intentional sexual contact, maybe a little kissing, but I mostly want to familiarize myself with your body, relax you, and build sexual tension.

After I’m finished toweling you off, I’d lead you to the bed, offer a fresh towel and give you a massage. I’d start on your shoulders and arms, move down to your back, then after working your lower back/upper glutes, I’d move down to your ankles and calves and work my way back up. Once your back is finished, you’ll turn over and work the front of your legs, and only then will I start to approach your vulva.

It will start with a gentle exploration of your labia and inner thigh as I get to know where you’re sensitive, and offer teasing kisses and gentle brushes from my hands. Only when you’re ready will I take the dive, and I don’t expect to be back up for some time, although I’ll be listening carefully to you and your body language.

If you’re comfortable with some digital penetration, we can enhance the sensation with that. If not, we can keep it all superficial and oral. It’s all ultimately up to you, though. You set the boundaries, and it’s my job to lift you to orgasm within those bounds.

I’m 5’8” with a dad bod, live in Somerville, work in life sciences, and enjoy biking and reading. I love all kinds of women. I’m open to most all ages, races, creeds, and body shapes. I am looking for someone HIV and HSV negative, as I am both of those.

If you respond, please tell me a little about yourself, what you’re hoping from an encounter, and include the word “vault” in your message.

Thanks so much for reading. I hope to make your acquaintance soon. Happy headhunting!