Hi there. I'm a 39 year old married man seeking a connection, hopefully local, who's also attached and looking to add something to their life and not change their situation. I am looking for an AP who would like to bring some excitement back into their life.

I am not new to this. After having some time between an amazing affair ending, I realised there are still parts of that type of relationship that I need and miss. I want something special with one woman.

I’m looking for a connection to someone who can match my energy and wants the same things I want… someone to share the parts of our lives with that our partners can’t or don’t want to.

Missing that feeling of excitement when you get a message? Feeling taken for granted? Missing that emotional and physical connection? Missing passion? I would love to give you that because I am absolutely missing that.

I enjoy staying active, exploring new places, and spending quality time with friends and family. I am hardworking, educated and have a good professional career. I'm driven, goal-oriented, and always up for a new challenge. Looking for someone who values meaningful connections and wants more in life. I love the same things a lot of people do: I reading, movies (especially horror movies), dining out and music and I love sharing those things with others.

I’ve been told I’m easy enough on the eyes and I’ve got a great sense of humor, a kind heart and plenty of time to chat with the right person. I miss having those butterflies when a new message comes in from a friend…someone to send good morning texts and flirty late night texts with, all the feelings etc.

I feel like it is also important to mention that I'm not here to change your situation or mine. I'm also not interested in blowing up my life or yours. Discretion I feel is really important and the ideal person I'm looking for will know what that means to both of our lives.

You would be - between the ages of 35 and 55, married or in a long term stable relationship, not into drama, not afraid to catch feelings, have the time for this, can carry a conversation, and is easy going. You know that home life will always come first for both of us.

If this sounds interesting to you, please introduce yourself with some basic info and let's chat and see where things go!