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I have put up the same post a few times in the past few months, and have had some incredible times meeting some wonderful women. Last night I met a woman ("Cat") who was comfortable with me journaling and documenting the incredible evening that we had. I hope that she can add her memories to this as well.

Yesterday I put up a post which focuses on exploration and discovery with a new partner. Specifically a new partner who may not have been comfortable exploring things in her past for whatever reason. It is a post that has led to some great interactions in the past few months and one that I love for two reason, one being that it is a privilege to help a partner to get over a fear or worry and branch out, and two being that I have a kink about it (up front full disclosure).

The interactions started from a brand-new account leaving a comment on my profile. I am always weary of new accounts because there is nothing to look at to determine if the account might have a real non-catfish person behind it. But the account asked me to message so I messaged and asked what she liked about my post. Unfortunately Cat had some trauma related to sex she wanted to work through, but also had never had a partner bring her to orgasm and wanted to be "thrown around like a toy". Sounded perfect to me!

The conversation bounced back and forth between sexual interests and our personalities, and we both had google voice so I asked her if she wanted to talk on the phone. What was supposed to be a quick call to verify that she was in fact a woman ended up going for 30 minutes and leading to her eventually saying "You sound great and I'd really like to meet you soon but I'm a bit nervous".

After that I mentioned my approach to meeting and vetting and safety-checking people from reddit, and offered her a few things that might make her feel safer. She must have liked what I said because she asked if I was free in an hour to meet up at a cafe bar nearby to me. We exchanged photos and both liked. I knew who to look for when we met.

I got a table outside and sat waiting for Cat to show up. She did and somehow looked both younger and prettier than her photo. Which was tough because it was a great photo. Brown hair in a pony, glasses, petite, looking like she just came from the office. A look I loved and am smitten by. She sat down and we started talking, and it seemed like 5 minutes but it was over an hour. There are a few things I do to try and bring on comfort and show safety and I think they worked because Cat asked if we could go to my place. So we did.

I led her inside and showed her around, then offered her a towel and let her take a quick shower as she came right from work. After that, we sat down, discussed our boundaries and thoughts another time, and started kissing. I love good kissers, good kissing is essential, and she was incredible and synced with the way I like to kiss. While kissing but not right away, we moved on to touching, slowly removing clothes. She ended up on her back, with me against her and between her legs. A big point of emphasis was that no partner had given her an orgasm and she wanted to experience that, so I took lots of care to slowly and skillfully lick her while using my fingers on her at the same time. It was unrushed and unhurried and it was gentle to start and it built from there. I wanted her to feel comfortable and safe, and I was rewarded with the leg kicks and quivers and shakes and the incredible sensation as she squeezed my fingers into oblivion during her climax. After she came down, we repeated this again and again. I wanted her to be able to bottle up the feeling so she could know what it was like to relax and enjoy with a partner.

We both wanted to fuck, and it was important to Cat to put the condom on me herself, so I showed her how to do that and she applied some lubricant to the condom. I picked her up and moved her deeper onto the bed, before grabbing her hips and slowly pushing inside while holding her arms down at her request. Just like licking my secret is to start slow and increase gradually as both partners want and we did that.

Sexual details can be boring and braggy so I will spare you all but the sex was really good and I was proud that we were able to cover the things that Cat wanted to try and explore and that she felt safe to be able to do so.

After we cleaned up, I drove her to her neighborhood and dropped her off in proximity to her apartment and then drove away so she could walk the last bit by herself. It was a really fun time and I will be sending her this post for her to add if she wants.