Once again I find myself here. Hoping that the right person runs across this post, reads it thinking, “wow, this is exactly what I’ve been looking for!”

See, I’ve been here before. I’ve had one night stands and I’ve had an affair that broke my heart in the end and everywhere in between. I’ve gone through many conversations that eventually fizzled out. Conversations that start off great and then the person isn’t as ready for this type of relationship as they thought they were, so please be ready.

I’m in a dead bedroom marriage of almost 4 years. I’m very high libido and longing for the type of affair that novels are made of! I’m not looking to change my situation or yours, but still looking for feelings and being on your priority list. Being each other’s AP’s, we know we aren’t each other’s number one priority but I feel like we have to be a priority nonetheless. I promise you if you put in effort, you will not be disappointed with what I have to offer back.

Since I’m not looking to change either of our situations, so discretion is a must and I appreciate it in return.

I want someone who will message throughout the day when they can, and can have a few sneaky phone calls on lunch breaks and when we are alone out and about. Meeting whenever we can and when there just isn’t time, still making time for a quick 10-15 minutes in a parking lot to steal some kisses and get lost in each other even for a few minutes just because we needed to be close to one another that badly.

The kind of passion that takes your breath away for a second when you think of your lover. The intensity of when you feel their hand go down your back or arm as they pull you in for a hug makes you tilt your head back just a little and close your eyes, losing yourself in that moment. Counting down the days/minutes until you see them again. That’s the kind of passion I’m looking for. I’m not afraid to catch feelings and if you’re messaging me, you shouldn’t be either. We need to be able to get lost in each other and still know when we part, we go back to our respective lives until we meet again.

A little about me, I’m 49, 5’10, dark hair with a hint of grey, blue eyes that I’ve been told are unbelievable, bearded with a muscular build. I’m a confident man and I take care of myself, as should you. I workout when I can and like to hike in the warmer months. I have pics and will gladly share.

I love spending my free time outdoors more than indoors. Getting lost in a good book is very much enjoyable.Love a good whiskey while relaxing on the couch at the end of the day, but also love a good beer... or 5 while watching a football game 😆

I’m pretty laid back and easy to get along with. I don’t get riled up easily. I don’t do drama of any kind.

Hoping there’s still someone out there who is looking for the same thing I am. Don’t be shy to reach out! Message me and we can talk about anything for a minute or everything for hours.