i’m 43M married with kids and sometimes life just gets stale.

I have a thing for women in their mid 30s, but I am open to any age for a woman that fits the bill for what I’m looking for.

I would love to have a woman in to talk about life, flirt, have naughty talk, whatever you want. And then whenever we can get away with it, some in person intimacy, whether that is sex or just flirty kissing and stuff. It can even be just friendship, honestly.

About me: married with kids and I say that I am generally happy but clearly I am here. I am tall white male, I enjoy some outdoor activities as well as watching sports, cars, and great music and movies. I’m a very empathetic and kind person but also very stubborn. I am pretty outspoken. want my marriage to work but still feeling the need for a connection and missing intimacy. I am a very sexual person and like a lot of foreplay and to give pleasure back. sometimes it’s physically gratifying just to kiss and hold hands.

About you: preferably married so that we are in the same boat, prefer women shorter than me but you don’t have to be shorter by a ton. Prefer somebody who is kind but can still be firey and give it back to me when warranted and enjoys and gives sarcasm. somebody intelligent, flirty and affectionate, and who has interests of her own whether they are the same as mine or new things for each other to discover. Someone who agrees that we are here to connect on an intellectual and possibly physical way but not here to bash our spouses nor sabotage each other’s marriages. If this were to involve a sexual component I much prefer a woman who is really into the sex and makes effort, an active participant per se, somebody who is passionate, not looking for dirty sex if we do have sex but looking for fun and passionate intimacy. Somebody who likes to kiss and gentle touches. But again, the intimate part of this is not a dealbreaker this could just be a friendship.

It would work out best if you lived closer to me, I am on the 495 belt near where the pike meets 495. Prefer married so that we are on the same playing field but open to single women as well.

I would love to be each other’s flirty little secret.