Like the title says - but emphasis on the words connection and relationship. I'm looking for an ongoing, honest type friendship that happens to include chemistry and mutual attraction. Something we can act on once we've built a level of trust, authentic attraction, and a shared love of incredible intimacy, Like, so much so that you are willing to carefully engage in such secretive shenanigans with a secret special friend because your spouse has just basically lost interest and you are not ready to say goodbye to your sex life. And also...if you're gonna step out, you're not gonna settle...quite the opposite because you want to the risk of each moment together to be worth it because the fit there on a physical/emotional/personal level is incredible. I'm looking for someone who is bright enough to be able to manage the risks down to near zero and someone who is sure this is something they have need/place for in their lives. Someone who would welcome ongoing hot, steamy, passionate intimacy back in their life on an ongoing basis, but at the same time has no interest in just finding someone online to simply get laid.

ME: 5’10”, in very good shape, beard. Good looking but I have lost a good amount of hair, so if balding gents turn you off, I’m not for you. Professional and educated but I don't think that's too reflective of my personality as I like to try to not take life too seriously and squeeze the joy out of whatever I can. I certainly don't need someone professional or educated, but I do need someone who is a good conversationalist and is interested in taking the time to have (hopefully) interesting and fun conversations to build rapport and eventually meet in a low-pressure situation to see how it translates IRL. I'm open and genuinely enjoy getting to know new people, and love all things media. Hiker, sports fan, closet nerd, 420 friendly....many aspects to me as with all people, and I am looking for someone interested in getting to know that as well as in a healthy dose of fooling around.

YOU: Preferably close to my age but not the most important factor. Race/ethnicity is truly unimportant as I find attraction for all. I also am attracted to a wide range of body types but am a sucker for a pretty face. More important is that you have a good head on your shoulders, enjoy conversation, and are willing to put the work in to establish rapport over at least a few weeks before moving into something physical. But also, you are also interested in the physical aspect and hoping for a heavy dose of intimacy to eventually be a part of our time together (totally open to doing things when possible that don't involve intimacy, but the type of connection I'm seeking would be the kind where if you don't get a couple of hours to go ham on each other every month you feel like you're going to explode because the chemistry is so hot and the intimacy is so good). You are comfortable and enjoy a more romantic view of sex with heavy amounts of making out before, during, and after. Also hopefully someone who is less into quickies than lazy days in bed spent seeing how many times I can make you O. I don't personally have any real kinks, but I am open (within reason) to yours as I would LOVE to make fantasies a reality and do whatever floods my partner with pleasure. Most importantly, I can only slip out and disappear some weekdays throughout the week, between 9 and 4 typically, so you need to have that fit your windows too.

If you've read this far...first, thanks. I took some time here to try and get the ball rolling as well as possible with the right type of matches. Also, you can see some of what i look like from pics on my profile - nothing X-rated as that's not my vibe. If this interests you, please drop me a line and let me know a little about yourself. Every relationship starts with a hello and builds through conversation, sharing, listening, etc...so let's see where it leads.