I was going to use a time travel pick up line, but you didn’t like it.

But you did really enjoy our time together.

I know there are a million posts to wade through and maybe you will find mine and send a note.

I’m looking for an attached woman close to my age with whom my words might resonate. I’m looking for a friend. Someone who, like me, has a full life and is happy overall. But finds mid life hard, sometimes for reasons unexplainable. We love our partners and can’t imagine a future without them. But we miss affection, attention, and an eager ear to share everything.

I posted here because I’m looking for more than online , but not looking for something that is sex driven. Yes, I crave intimacy but the more romantic, affectionate, “loving” kind. I want the genuine care for each other. We even care for and respect the love we have for our respective partners. I want the friend with pillow talk.

My situation makes it possible for me to host at times. I would love to meet someone nearby but also open to a little travel but know that this will make it a little harder. But a healthy distance might make it ok, and our meetings a bit sweeter.

I’m a father of 3 kids who love my partner. I risk their happiness and mine , so I take discretion extremely seriously. Nobody gets hurt and I promise you the same in return for my trust in you.

I’m educated and intellectual, craving more stimulation in this regard. I’m playful, flirty and curious. I have a great sense of humor and my friends know me as one of the funniest guys in the room, even if it is a subtle witty humor. I love to cook, travel, exercise, and discover new places. I am a coffee snob and lover of ethnic cuisines.

Say hi please. A note to me does not mean anything more than that. Tell me about your weekend and something you are looking forward to.