Hey! So I’m a 26 year old virgin and honestly since covid it has felt very difficult to get out and about. I’ve struggled with social anxiety but I feel like I’ve made so many improvements and need to just get myself out there! I feel ready to make a connection with someone and have sexual experiences. But I also want it to be meaningful to some extent and feel like I am sharing this moment with someone I’ll be comfortable with!
I want to be honest though: my situation is complicated. Do not message me in the hopes of meeting up right away. It may be a while so I need someone who’s going to be patient with me and wants to develop a connection first!
So that being said, here are some things I’m looking for:
- I tend to have a thing for more petite girls. Not too picky but just generally not attracted to chubby girls! (no offense, just preference)
- I’m looking for someone who communicates well! I will absolutely not entertain someone who talks like a brick wall
- I will need some patience as it may take some time for me to have a good chance to meet up. So I’d love someone who wants a real connection as well and it willing to grow that rather than
- Empathy and understanding will absolutely be attractive too!
For a bit about myself
- I’m 5’10 3/4, 200 pounds, short dirty blond hair with blue eyes
- I’m very introverted! I have struggled with social anxiety and just generally prefer hanging out with people 1 on 1 or in smaller groups. I also will admit I struggle with anxiety in general and sometimes can be quick to getting sad and being hard on myself. I’m working on it but its always a process.
- I’m often told I’m the sweet and caring type of guy. I try not to take things too seriously and keep them positive
- Have plenty of hobbies I enjoy such as basketball and football, listening and playing music, video games and even some politics!
- Somewhat vanilla but enjoy exploring!
So yeah! I really hope to meet someone in my area that would love to meet and chat a lot before getting down to the really fun stuff. Hope I sound cool and please send me a (read) disclaimer so I know you’re not a bot!
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