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For Interested (cis) F and Couples Only
Hey Yall, Zach here
Sorry, but this one will be a doozy.
I am looking for connections. Plain and simple. Whether itās romantic, platonic, sexual, or not is up to you. Something long term is a must, where we get to know each other a little. One offs are not it yall. If you aren't interested in something consistent, take a hike.
And another thing real quick. Communication is the #1 thing for me. If you are no longer interested or not comfortable, Iād rather you say so than to be waiting on a response that isn't coming. Comfort is the #2 thing for me, this is meant to blow off steam not make more of it (unless we are in the shower). Same rules go for me too. Being open and honest is what is most important to me.
Now for the meat and potatoes of this post:
GF: This is what I am looking for the most. I want to be able to crush on someone so bad and actually get to fall for them. A cuddle buddy at the end of the day. Someone to laugh at my stupid jokes, or at least the attempts I call a joke. But above all, I want to be there for someone, and I want them to be there for me. This isn't a one person experience after all. If you couldn't tell, I am looking for someone who can be sweet and spicy. I am often really horny, but I am looking for the wholesome side more. I can manage a relationship without the sex. I canāt take a relationship where there is no genuine care for the other party on either side.
FWB (online): For this, I canāt hammer in the point of consistency enough. I like sending and receiving pics and vids. Same goes for sharing porn. I donāt need to see your face if you donāt want to show it, bodies alone work for me, and I don't mind adding some RP on top of that, but text only can only get me so far. I am a very visual person. I am also a very horny person hence the regular part. Ideally, we can just send whatever whenever, for a reason or not.
FWB (IRL): Consistency is the key, yet again, but this case doesnāt need to be as regular as the online fwb, or gf. I feel like this is pretty self explanatory. Emphasis is on with. As much as I love the spicy side of life, I need the sweet too for it to be impactful. To me, there is no point in having a closed off / sex only relationship.
Swinging: It donāt mean a thing if it aināt a regular swing. For swinging I prefer older, more MILF centric couples. Men arenāt excluded from the fun, I just donāt know to what extent I am comfortable with. Obviously communicating our thoughts and expectations are a must. I am a stranger after all, and it's your relationship, not mine.
About Me: 5ā10ā white, blue eyes, brown hair, a little chubby, but a former athlete (hopefully gonna change that soon). Switch, and very kinky (check profile for more info). A total nerd, a geek, and a dork. Love video games, anime, cooking, spending quality time with people, to laugh, to cuddle, and most of all sleep.
If you are reaching out, please send your ASL. Mention your birthday too so I know you read the whole post. I prefer chats over pms, but I will not respond to comments.
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