41m42F/4M- south shore. My wife (42f) and I (41m) have been together for a long time. We have a VERY solid relationship. Over the past few years I set her up with a fwb. Why? Because she never really had those experiences when she was young as she grew up in a controlled and strict environment which always made her anxious. Always feeling like she had to answer to others. It was a constant stress as that is not her true personality. As she got older I wanted her to loosen up a bit, not be so proper. Let her true self come out. Have confidence in herself and do things for herself. I wanted her to feel attractive, sexy, confident, and be healthy in all aspects. She was reluctant at first to the idea of a fwb but was so intrigued. I was not going to push her or pressure her. All I wanted was her to know I supported her. Long story short… she gave it a shot. It’s been great! It was everything we hoped for and more. We had a good situation with someone which kind of ran its course so looking for something new.
FYI! We don’t move too fast! She isn’t really into older. She likes clean, genuine, kind, fit, and professional.
Update: we got flooded immediately since putting post up! Please respond with a little About yourself or a picture. We prob won’t reply to all but if you stand out we will.
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