Well, I figured it never hurts to be blunt, so alas here we are.
A bit about me: I'm 37, founder/CEO of two businesses which take up a considerable amount of my time. My main priorities in life (at the moment) are my dogs and my work. I am a wildly free spirit, into independence, exploration, hiking, camping. I love music, from Latin Jazz night at Wally's Cafe to a litany of Dead shows and seeing Phish whenever possible. I am decidedly laid back, exercise/walk extensively, write and read a bit in my free time (I am a Strange Loop is my favorite book ever), and at my core am a giver at times to my detriment. I am 5'10'', 195 lbs, blond hair blue eyes tattoos. I have pictures that I am happy to share.
What I'm after: I'm here for a fuck BUDDY. Finding inconsequential, transactional meaningless sex is super fucking easy and couldn't be less interesting to me. I also don't have time (or frankly interest at this point) to invest in a relationship or partnership. Thus, I'm after a buddy, someone I can vibe with, get along with (likely free spirit/hippie), laugh with, and on occasion when the mood strikes have really hot, wondrous sex with. Really, it's a healthy outlet for each of us. You understand that my lack of desire for a partnership or relationship says nothing about you, your value, or how I value you. You're not angry or jealous. I don't care if you fuck other people, candidly I don't have the time (or general interest) to do the same, you'll never hear from me about it. I'm comfortable with the fact that I am in all likelihood a comet streaking through your sky, likely not there for a long time but I'm always happy to remain friends or confidants as your life shifts and changes. Part of the impetus for this is that I am starting Vitamin/Testosterone/Growth Hormone therapy and have a feeling that I'm going to be pretty fucking horny, and the idea of channeling that into dating apps or bars is nauseating. Your age (qualifier provided you're at least 21) isn't terribly important to me, nor is your stage in life, etc. Mostly I'm just looking for a kind, fun loving spirit that loves getting eaten out (among other things): a fuck BUDDY.
What I'm not after: I'm the biggest ally in the world, and know that homosexuality is not a choice because if I could choose, I would absolutely choose to be a part of the coolest culture in the world. However, the idea of being with a man sexually is fucking repulsive and as such, I'm not here to meet men. I don't really want to be a disruptive force in someone else's relationship; more power to you if you're dating someone else, but I don't want to create more division in this lifetime.