I am an older, highly educated professional gentleman in search of a Domme for an in-person dynamic. I am very experienced in the BDSM lifestyle. While I have been leaning dominant since a young age, I have relatively recently discovered the joys of serving, and I believe that this may be my true calling at this stage of my life. My main kinks are orgasm control and worshipping, but I’m into a whole lot more. In any case, I am more interested in your kinks than mines, as I feel it should be. I have few hard limits and other soft limits that I’d be happy to discuss in a private conversation. The bottom line is that I know very well what it means and what it takes to serve, and I am very eager to find someone to submit to unconditionally.

With that being said, I am not going to submit to just about anyone but to the right person. Specifically I am looking for a lady who:

-Is confident, knowledgeable about D/s dynamics, has experience, is familiar with safety protocols, and is able to handle things both physically and emotionally.

-Is reasonably local to me. In my experience D/s dynamics work best when there is regular in-person contact. While I am very much aware that it’s hard to find a match in general, let alone next door, I know that I need someone I can meet with a certain frequency. This means that my ideal match would be based in MA, RI, or southern NH or ME

-Is able to host. While this is not a deal breaker, it would make things a lot easier. I’d be happy to discuss the reasons for this in private.

-Is younger than me, but not necessarily dramatically so. I am in a position of authority in my daily life and an age gap (even a slight one) would add to the feeling of humiliation and is part of my kink.

-Is reasonably attractive to me. I can only submit to someone that I find attractive. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, so not much else I can add to this in abstract terms.

-Is not a professional Domme. While you would have my full attention and unwavering devotion, I have no desire to deal with anyone looking for monetary compensation. I need to see you as a person to be pleased, and not as a mere kink dispenser.

Other than that, I will just add that I am safe, sane, healthy, laid back, and have a wicked sense of humor (if that matters).

Personal messages are preferred to chat requests.

Looking forward to hearing from you.