Hey There,

Late 30's bi/pan guy just sort of glancing about for some light NSA fun today or in the near future with another gent. 6', average build/little extra pandemic poundage, hipster looks. I'm typically rather switchy and enjoy making out, jacking, oral, and some dom/sub powerplay (though none of the above is strictly necessary - fun is only fun if everyone is onboard). Not looking for penetrative play. Would be fun to find someone aroundish my age (late 20's-mid 40's) who wants to get into some light play. Ideally, you can host; if not, I can here and there on weekdays.

I do want to be super clear that I'm open to anyone who identifies as male or non-binary. In no way, shape, or form do I want anyone reading this to feel fetishized for who they are. Not at all the aim, here. More just attempting to make clear that I'm looking for fun with a dude and, well, trans dudes are dudes.

While most of my partners have been cis men or women, I have enjoyed the company of a couple of FTM gents in the past and I was just sort of reflecting on how much fun I had with one of them, in particular. When he and I first hooked up, we spent a lot of time talking about how he just didn't feel like certain casual play experiences - that other queer men took for granted - were necessarily open to him as an FTM guy. I honestly hadn't spent much time thinking about that prior to connecting with him and, I've got to say, it was an awful lot of fun serving as something of an outlet for him to explore that and enjoy himself. Don't get me wrong, it certainly helped that he was ridiculously handsome, had strong arms, a great grip on my hair, and knew just how he liked his dick serviced but, yeah, it was also just really hot to feel like I was helping someone else to fully engage with an aspect of their sexuality they hadn't gotten to explore. If he were to see this, I think he would testify that he had a good time, but I would certainly never tag anyone without their prior consent. Definitely open to another experience like that but am also perfectly happy to roll with a gent for whom it's all old hat.

Interested? Hit me up via chat.