I've connected with few people but am still looking for the right sub for me.

I'm only looking for a long term, romantic relationship. I'm not looking for endless exploration of a connection for months on end without labels. If labels put you off, then we probably aren't compatible. I know if I want to seriously date somone within the first few months of knowing each other.

Even though I'm poly, I'm very relationship oriented and rarely seek out casual play. I know I only have energy for 2 long term relationships. If I had more, I wouldn't be able to treat my partners fairly and that's the last thing I want. Ideally, I would like my partners to be at least cordial with each other, but it's not a requirement.

I like the combination of more gentle femdom with a solid dose of sadism. On the softer side of things, I really enjoy: forehead kisses, head pats, hugs, pet names, and cutesy encouragements. On the harder side: I'm not afraid to make you beg like a slut for me to let you cum, choke you, slap you around, and call you dirty names for my own pleasure.

My key kinks are: lactation, orgasm control/denial, humiliation/degredation, penetration, and impact play. Happy to share my full kinklist.

I'm not into age play or incest. I don't mind someone acting a bit childish, but I don't want to feel like I'm dealing with an actual child. Inducing lactation is a long term goal of mine. I've done it once before and really miss it, but want to make sure I do it with someone special.

Me: 26. Black. NB. Poly and Married. Short, cute, and curvy. Obsessed with all things horror. Definitely a bit of a gamer (the winter Steam sale has been a danger to my wallet this past week or so). Childfree. Equal parts goofy and sarcastic, but I know how to be serious when it's needed. Into anime and manga. Spending time with my cats. I have many other weird niche interests and trivia.

You: 23-35. Any gender. Submissive or sub-leaning switch. Childfree. Leftist. Within an hour of the Boston area. Looking for a long term relationship. Kind and cuddly. In touch with your needs, wants, and feelings. Covid cautious. 420 friendly. Poly yourself or cool with dating a poly person.

If you reach out, please answer the following questions. Otherwise, I will not respond.

1. Are you masking indoor currently? (I have immunocompromised people in my circle and am only looking to meet people who still mask.)
2. What are you like in your vanilla life?
3. What are you looking for in a long-term Mommy Dom/sub kinky relationship?

I look forward to hearing from you cuties 🥰