We all know the feeling. Checking our phone all day hoping for a message. A smile on your face as you see the little notification, telling you they were thinking of you too.

39f (soon to be 40.. how did that happen?) here, looking for the excitement of getting to know someone new. I'm currently in a relationship and while it clearly has flaws (as evidenced by thebfact that I am here posting on reddit), I am not looking to change that situation in the near future for someone I meet on reddit.

I am looking for someone witty & funny, who can help carry a conversation, and who knows how to be discrete. I believe age is just a number, but I'm typically drawn to men older than myself and maturity goes a long way. You can be taken or single, as long as you respect my situation.

I've found it before so I know it's out there, but I'm hoping to find the kind of elusive connection where you want to learn everything about the other person and it is hard to put your phone down. We both know this feeling doesn't last forever but it's fun for a few months while it does, right?

In theory this will primarily be online connection, but I am not opposed to keeping the door open to other ideas. I live north of Boston in the 93N corridor, it could be exciting if you are nearby? Please include your favorite season so I know you can pass elementary reading comprehension. Fair warning, I will be hesitant to show my face at first in case we turn out to be next door neighbors (imagine the awkwardness at the next BBQ!).

I think this has gone on long enough but since I know all of you guys reading this are just after this info ;) I am 5'8, blonde hair/hazel eyes, and would be considered bbw, but I do take care of myself, love fashion & makeup, and take pride in my appearance so don't get any crazy ideas.

If past experience serves me right, it will be RIP to my inbox soon, so please bear with me as I do my best to work my way through. Thanks & hope to be addicted to you soon!