I am 40 m 6 ft, 240 lbs, muscular dad bod with strong arms, shoulders and chest. I am handsome, bearded, with salt and pepper hair and brown eyes. I dress well, I am very successful, clean, intelligent, have a great sense of humor and can hold a conversation.

Ideally, you’re between ages 25 through 40. I’m absolutely smitten by a pretty face and femininity.

Full disclosure. I am going through a divorce at the moment, but very much looking to heal and move on. My story is very long and complex, but basically I didn’t see this coming. I’m a huge romantic, but was previously career focused and this apparently killed my marriage. I left my career, only to learn she’s moved on.

But what this has done has made me realize how much I want to be in a relationship. She isn’t the person for that anymore, but as much as I have physical desires, what I am craving most right now is emotion connection, comfort, and support that only a woman can give me.

I might sound like someone’s discarded ex, but I really have so much to offer, have so much I want to give of myself, and want a companion to do it with. I realize this isn’t the right place for romance, but I am hoping someone will see me and be interested in taking a chance.

I love reading, aspire to travel a lot more, adore cooking and dining, cocktails, finance, luxury design, watches. I also love nature, math, the universe, animals, and hiking.

My heart is super broken right now, and I realize that isn’t totally fair to someone else at the moment. But if you take the risk on me, and can help me see there is still beauty and nurturing out there in women, I will be so incredibly loyal and giving.

To be clear, this isn’t cheating. She and I are beyond done and we are in the process.

Thanks for reading if you got this far. I hope you’ll consider saying hello.