Hi all. I am solo poly, looking for other poly people to be friends, partners, and open to all types of connections as long as there is mutual interest and enthusiasm. Ideally, I would like to explore a romantic relationship. I prefer the kitchen table dynamic. I strive to be non-hierarchical and for relationship anarchy (i.e. close connections do not get hierarchically sorted by relationship type). I'd love to find a nesting partner eventually.

I have had a couple of poly relationships in the past. I am also a very kinky and kink experienced switch. Open to play partners too! Currently have one submissive play partner.

I recently moved to the Boston area after completing my PhD. I am definitely nerdy, and I love to read both nonfiction (especially social justice-oriented) and fiction (thrillers, sci-fi, fantasy). I am also a huge trekkie, and other favorite shows include BoJack Horseman, ATLA, and Andor.

I love reading, hiking, biking, playing board games and badminton, and want to get more and more involved in radical organizing and mutual aid efforts. I also like dancing and want to learn and improve it as a skill. I am far-left (anarcho-communist) and committed to the political struggle to end all hierarchical oppressions, structures, and institutions. These include but are not limited to capitalism, patriarchy, white supremacy, nation-states, borders, prisons, police, ableism, cisnormativity, heteronormativity, etc. My political journey and anarchist philosophy, my understanding of consent, and distinguishing control versus boundaries are what originally brought me to polyamory.

I am about 5'9", athletic, brown-skinned, have black hair and eyes, and maintain a stubble beard. Feel free to DM/chat and ask me anything, and I hope we get to know each other. Open to online connections but ideally want to build more local connections as I basically know no one in the Boston area after moving here.