Hi, silent blue eyes here! searching for someone to spend time with. On a friendly but intimate level.

Sharing a little about me, I consider myself a lifetime student and gentleman. Very receptive and open-minded to new forms of thought, ideas, or handling certain or unique problems.

When I’m out and about, I enjoy giving off a good first impression. Handshakes, smiles, pleases, and thank-yous

Friends and acquaintances have mentioned that engaging in conversation with me can be pleasurable—some would say even insightful.

My day job is in the healthcare industry. Nothing sexy like a doctor—more administrative, working in the background.

Outside of work, I enjoy many forms of entertainment, including things like podcasts, social debates, horror movies, and most genres of music. I also have a moderate interest in games, anime, and space/midevil fantasy, to name a few.

My side hobbies consist of collecting artwork. During my free time, I like drawing or reading. In the future, I’d like to get into woodworking and photography.

When not stuck indoors, I enjoy jogging around my neighborhood or just spending time in nature. Cloudy days with slight winds are my favorites. I used to volunteer at my local animal shelter, but I just haven’t found the extra time due to work. More recently, I’ve taken an interest in archery. Not for hunting but just as a fun activity.

Most people generally describe me as the introverted, quiet, or shy type. However, that couldn’t be further from the truth. I’m just very reserved, and I choose wisely whom I communicate with. I do actually love a good discussion and love to learn what other people are all about.

My stats: - 5’9" 180 lbs (stocky) Black African American/Trinidadian mix negative stds/stIs

Red Flags 🚩Dealbreakers:- Things people typically don’t like about me Smoker, agnostic, apolitical, has roommates. Alcoholand&420 are0friendly,ybut It rarely partake myself.

Green flags ✅: things people typically like about me: Good communication, thoughtfulness, honesty, kinkiness, and open-mindedness.

What I offer: While what we have together might not be what’s called a lovingly solid monogamous relationship, more so a situationship or FwB, I still believe in protecting and looking out for those around me. I’m a great listener and patient, and I also enjoy gift-giving. I like learning about a person to the point where I can find meaningful and helpful gifts in their daily lives.

What to expect: In the beginning, you’ll be met with someone very reserved. After a while, I should open up. The easiest way to open up is through humor. I’m the type that enjoys regular texting, but not every day or 24/7. Lastly, my crazy party days are over. I still know how to have fun but prefer more low-key environments and situations.

Preferences: I do have a preference for women between the heights of 5’4" and 5’9" with a build ranging from 150 lbs. to 255 lbs. Personality-wise, I mesh better with someone who is naturally more demure. Loudness and abrasiveness, while sexy at times, can be irritating for me after a while.

For more information, reach out to me directly through DMs here on Reddit. If interested, please message me with a little about yourself.

Thanks and Cheers! 🥂