There was a knock at the door. I was wearing a slip of a nightgown I've featured in previous posts. A subtle purple, soft and clingy in all the right places... I opened the door to let u/International-Air232 in with the delivery. Her smile hit me first - There's always that awkward, 'are-we-really-doing-this' moment, and that melted away as she set the coffees down and got comfy - Then the conversation began! In my head, before Sunday morning, I figured she would come in, u/respectabullinMA and I would get handsy, and have some fun in front of her, and then we'd take it from there (as discussed). Only that didn't happen.... We probably chatted about *everything* for a good hour while we nibbled on bagels, sipped coffee, and generally enjoyed each others company. Eventually, I think we all realized that the morning was slipping away, and we should really enjoy our time together before checkout.

International-air, (IA) opted to get *very* comfy and removed her leggings showing off a sexy black garter/panties set and got on the couch as Respectabull (RB) got down to his boxers as he pushed me down on the bed in front of her. My nightgown didn't stay on for long and it was so incredibly hot to have him enjoying my breasts as IA watched from the couch. After a little lite play, I rolled him on his back, and we got rid of his boxers so I could demonstrate just how much I love giving head - hearing IA compliment my moves and hearing RB gasp in pleasure in the same space was heavenly, and only got me more turned on.

As planned, we invited IA to join us on the bed as RB checked in with us verbally to make sure everyone was still comfortable, no one was unsure or not feeling it - but we confirmed things were going well, and he got dressed to go read his book *elsewhere*. This was not about him, and he was happy to leave us be.

As he left, we both lay next to each other, skin, legs, tangled up - just chatting a little more, and then IA asked if she could feel my breasts with her hand - I happily consented and her skin was so soft - so very gentle against mine - She followed that up with the same question about her mouth, and I consented to that as well - she felt heavenly on me. I lay back and absorbed all the attention, going through the differences of texture between RB's skin/touch/temperature and hers - and then just enjoyed getting lost in the new sensations. We enjoyed that level of touch and exploration for a lovely amount of time - talking in between tasting and touching, each the focus of the other for a period of time, just letting activities flow from one to the other without planning. I had set a hard limit on pussy play only because I'm dealing with a little yeast infection (yay summer, yay reality!) - but offered to get myself off for her which she was very happy to agree to. I reached down to play with my clit as she played with my nipples. Mouth on one, fingers on the other. Letting myself enjoy all that pleasure was a wonderful ride and I came in short order - there was no anxiety about playing with another woman, IA made me feel extremely comfortable and my inexperience wasn't an issue. I excused myself to go wash my hands, and as I returned and got back into bed, I heard myself offering up RB's cock to share - I felt incredibly comfortable offering it without his previously agreed upon consent for *This* moment, and knew that if he had an issue with that he wouldn't hesitate to decline. IA loved the idea and we took a moment to discuss a couple of things. 1) This would be my first time sharing MY partner with another woman. 2) If anyone of us felt uneasy about anything at anytime, anyone could say 'stop' and no one would be upset. With her and I onboard, I sent a very simple text message to RB:

*"Hey, I want to share your cock with her. Will you come back up?"*

His response:

*"I'm on my way .."*

I'll let RB comment with his shock, surprise and caution on his own, But let it be known that he and I have discussed sexual play with others for MANY years (all of our years together, in fact) as I had never shared any previous partners (knowingly, with my consent) with another woman and in our conversations, we both understood that I may have some jealousy/insecurity issues that I would have to deal with. But something about IA felt right. I had not planned to offer him to her, I had not thought about it, but suddenly I wanted to share him with her, I wanted to explore the idea of a joint blowjob (seriously, logistics?), and felt zero pangs of jealousy -

We went back to playing on the bed after I sent the text, and he arrived a few minutes later - most likely bewildered and certain he was walking into a trap. He took a seat on the couch - When I realized he wasn't getting undressed, I invited him over, and he got comfortable on the bed, making sure IA was okay with this, as she was getting comfortable in the crook of his arm to watch. I kissed him and slid down over his legs and found a good angle, then took his cock in my mouth, enjoying one of my favorite sounds... that sigh of pleasure when my lips wrap around a man's cock. IA provided words of encouragement as RB's eyes rolled back, and between his moans and her vocal cues, I was in a definite happy place. Eventually I let him go and offered his cock to her - watching intently as she parted her lips and took him in. Hearing that gasp come from him again, and watching his cock disappear into her eager mouth was such an amazing turn on. Who know that watching some other woman please my man could be that exciting?! There were no insecure thoughts. there was no fear of him dumping me on that bed and going home with her, there was no competition - there was, however, a very interesting detachment that allowed me to go over thoughts in my head while still enjoying this new adventure. We took turns enjoying him - trying different approaches, angles, rhythms, and of course, got a BGW photo to share with the community - all the while chatting, sharing how incredible everyone looked , or felt, or sounded. Much of our activity from here on out turns into a blur for me - There was no pushing set boundaries, everyone had provided consent, everyone was enjoying everyone else, and things gradually came to a halt around 1230 - we had to checkout in an hour(!). We all lay a tangled mess on the bed - just regrouping, catching our collective breath, and as good hosts, offered her not only a shower, but some of the infamous honeysoap that RB provides as aftercare. (You may have viewed that photo yesterday on BGW!).

All in all, IA turned out to be a FANTASTIC addition to our morning, and did not spill one drop of coffee!

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Now that the sexy part of that r4r post is up, Lets talk about the non sexy part - ALL the work that goes into the time between a post gets published, and the meetup happens.

My original post resulted in a number of decent conversations, HOWEVER, 99% of the messages I got were NOT from verified accounts, and had blank profiles. Gentlemen - my bar is set SO LOW to get that first level of achievement with my r4r posts and you can't even meet that. Are you on the r4r subreddit to play/connect with someone else? FFS, get VERIFIED. It takes NO time, does not require a face pic, and lets me (along with the other women that lurk/post here) know that the chances of you being a real person, and a man as advertised, and willing to put in a tiny bit of effort to connect with someone goes a VERY long way AND sets you apart from the guys who wont get verified (which to me shows that they are *probably* cheating on someone, or won't put in any effort to make me feel good, just get their dick wet, get off, and leave*.

Blank profiles - HUGE turnoff. AT the very least, fill out the top part to show your age/general location/what you are looking for. But more so, find some subreddits to get involved in (NSFW or others) as that might give someone else an idea on what you're like to interact with, or that you have other interests besides scrolling reddit. Again, put the effort into building up your profile. Casual sex does not mean lazy sex.

DO NOT SEND PHOTOS unless requested. Consent is FUCKING sexy. If the *only* thing you have to offer is your penis measurement, I'll ignore the fuck out of you. I don't care. That doesn't tell me anything other than you are probably a horrible lover because you're only relying on your dick size to 'impress'. AFter MANY conversations with many of the women who frequent this subreddit and BGW, many of us don't care measurements as a primary reason to pursue/pick you. And if a post does ask for photos (like mine, where I requested photos of your hands carrying coffee...) send them! I put all that info into my post to give you the best shot at playing with me. Yet you ignore that information. I'm giving you tools to succeed and you're leaving them in the tool box. WTF.

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u/International-Air232 messaged me at the eleventh hour - at first it wasn't clear that she was a she, but when it dawned on me , I was super exited! She wrote a respectful but playful message that made it clear she had read both my posts, and had checked out my profile/posts before reaching out. We discussed verification on the subreddit (which was very happy to take care of) AND consent from her partner that everyone was aware of what was going on and okay with everything. We discussed sexual heath/expectations/boundaries... everything was going so well - then I had to put the phone down for the afternoon - She was going to send me her partner's okay before the end of the evening, and I was about to spend the afternoon with a non-reddit friend, and the waiting was rough!!

But then, before bed, there was the text from her and her partner - we were on for the morning! Communication was constant and clear from her - she not only answered my questions but asked questions as well. She was engaged in the conversation, not just reacting.

I really have to thank the three guys who frustrated me enough to make that second r4r, and everyone else who didn't bother to read my requests - as it paved the way for her message to get to me and for us to connect.

I also want to sincerely thank those who simply reached out too late, or too far away, or for whatever reason you simply were not a good match at the time - I 100% appreciate the respectful approaches and conversations that were had.

a photo will be posted soon in r/BostonGoneWild

No there were no other photos, no I will not send you any photos.

No, none of us want to be solicited for a hookup with you after reading this, don't ask.

We ordered from Coffee Break in Quincy and they were delightful!

If anyone has any questions about successfully finding connections through the r4r subreddit, feel free to ask - Just know that I'll be honest as fuck when answering

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