Hi bostonr4r,

I'm a 32/m in a practical open arrangement (my significant other is fully aware of this), seeking what might be considered a friend with benefits, but with an emphasis on ensuring the "friends" part applies at first. Ideally I'd like to meet a fun woman who is interested in having engaging conversations (I love learning about new interests/hobbies/jobs people have) over dinner or drinks, or maybe on a walk in the nice summer weather. If there's chemistry after a first meeting or two, I'd love to have a steady monogamous FWB, but I'm also very happy to meet new people and enjoy good conversation even if chemistry isn't there.

I'm in good physical shape (runner, not a gym rat) and in good health. I am graduate-degree educated from one of the area universities, and have a stable professional job. I live on the north shore, but am open to traveling within ~60-90 minutes to meet the right person. My current situation is open, so it should be known what that means, and the limitations of that, before going into anything. Happy to elaborate more to anyone who is interested.

I always try to see the best in everyone I meet, and enjoy meeting people from new backgrounds and in different stages of life. I can get along with people from their 20s to their 50s. I'm stimulated far more by making a personal and intellectual conversation, I believe intimacy, should things lead there, is much better when there's a connection first. Giving pleasure and making someone I connect with feels good is a top priority. I don't have a "type" and would encourage any woman reading and interested to reach out.I am aware that there will likely be many catfishes on here, so I expect to verify shortly after engaging in a back and forth banter and seeing if there's compatibility. My work limits my ability to text excessively, but I do my best and think I'm better in person. That said, I am looking for someone local who is willing to eventually meet if there is mutual interest, so I'm not really interested in any out-of-state online friendships at this time. I would meet with no preconceived expectations other than meeting someone new and making a friend. I am looking to take time to find a single partner for an ongoing friendship, not looking for one night stands or hookups.

I will not be changing my current situation, and have no desire to change anyone else's, though I am open to understanding others in various situations. If meeting someone new and having good conversation over drinks or dinner sounds like fun, reach out! No men, no couples, women only.