Hi there. Glad you stopped in. As you can see by my title I'm a 41 Year old guy living in Bourne. Recently single as in divorcing. It's been a multi year thing so not exactly something fresh. I am also a dad as well just to put that out there.

Here is some info about me that I'm just going to put down. If you get through that i'll have the type of person I'm looking for. 

 - I'm 6ft and have that a dad bod I believe. I live near the canal so just waiting for the sun to be out later to begin enjoying it daily. 

 - speaking of the canal I really enjoy walks. On the beach and looking for shells, sea glass, treasures or even trash cleaning. I love walking the canal or local towns.

 - I like coffee and having a cup while doing the above. 

 - I like to hike. I'd love to start doing more mountain type hikes. I love being outside in fresh mountain air... I just wish the mosquitos would leave me alone.

 - I like to find new breweries or places to eat. I do enjoy craft beers typically ipas.

 - I enjoy taking a drive and seeing what can be seen. I'd rather take the back roads then the highway.  

 - I typically don't have a "plan" for a day if I'm alone. It may just be get a coffee and then drive. But it's funny where that can take you. Oh look at the giant waves at the beach. Or hey there is a music festival here today. I'd love to share that. 

 - I enjoy a good dad joke

 - I'm easy going

  - I like quality over quantity 

 - love to just snuggle on the couch and watch something on TV (Ted lasso, mandalorian, foundation, the Witcher, the good place...to name a few shows I like or have liked)

• play single player games to pass the time

 - I want to make furniture someday

• I like to jog and ride my bike

Well that's a bit about me. I would like to add that I would like to find someone compatible and that includes the sexual side of things and being open and honest. Someone having a side of kink that they have or would like to explore is a huge plus. Or at the very least being open to talking and exploring. It's not just about the sex it's more than that, deeper... if that makes sense. I'm a Scorpio if that matters. 

So you made it this far....who am I looking for... Well someone around my age, 45 to younger. Female. Local.

Hopefully you have read this whole thing and decided "well let's see what he has to say". I really only need 1 reply....right? I'm hoping the universe, when the time is right, pushes that person my way. I of course am slightly impatient. I just want to have fun. Explore. Smile and laugh. Does that mean a Fwb? Relationship? More or less? I'm not sure. I don't have a plan but just seeing who comes my way. 

Hope to hear back soon.